{"id":7204,"date":"2023-11-01T10:46:30","date_gmt":"2023-11-01T10:46:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millinews.az\/xeber\/h%C9%99vvani-c%C9%99nn%C9%99td%C9%99n-muasirl%C9%99rini-%C9%99rd%C9%99n-ed%C9%99n-emosional-ehtiyac-ail%C9%99y%C9%99-ziddir-r%C9%99zal%C9%99tdir\/"},"modified":"2023-11-01T10:46:30","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T10:46:30","slug":"h%C9%99vvani-c%C9%99nn%C9%99td%C9%99n-muasirl%C9%99rini-%C9%99rd%C9%99n-ed%C9%99n-emosional-ehtiyac-ail%C9%99y%C9%99-ziddir-r%C9%99zal%C9%99tdir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=7204","title":{"rendered":"H\u0259vvan\u0131 c\u0259nn\u0259td\u0259n, m\u00fcasirl\u0259rini \u0259rd\u0259n ed\u0259n “emosional ehtiyac”: ail\u0259y\u0259 ziddir, r\u0259zal\u0259tdir"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Emosional ehtiyaclar n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Y\u0259qin ki, minl\u0259rl\u0259 emosional ehtiyac var. Emosional ehtiyaclar sa\u011flam h\u0259yat t\u0259rzinin bir hiss\u0259sidir v\u0259 bu ehtiyaclar\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259si fiziki ehtiyaclar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r vacibdir. Emosional ehtiyaclar xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 rahat hiss etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ehtiyac duydu\u011fumuz hissl\u0259r v\u0259 ya \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rdir. Onlar olmadan \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u0259yus, incik v\u0259 ya naraz\u0131 hiss ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n emosional ehtiyaclar\u0131 var. Emosional t\u0259labat\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sas m\u0259suliyy\u0259t f\u0259rdin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Emosional ehtiyac h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u0259rqli m\u0259nalar k\u0259sb edir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r ARB TV-nin \u201cG\u00fcn\u0259 Son\u201d verili\u015find\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova deyib ki, emosional ehtiyac\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fanmaq kimi bir h\u00fcququ var.<\/em><\/p>\n

O bildirib ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n emosional ehtiyaclar\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259nm\u0259lidir, \u0259ks halda qad\u0131n bo\u015fanma h\u00fcququndan istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r:<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cM\u0259nim 3 minlik bir telefona emosional ehtiyac\u0131m varsa, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m ya onu m\u0259n\u0259 almal\u0131d\u0131r, ya da m\u0259nim imtina etm\u0259k h\u00fcququm var\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Psixoloqun bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri studiyada v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131qla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131b.<\/em><\/p>\n

Biz d\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015f yar\u0131 g\u00fclm\u0259li, yar\u0131 ciddi bu fikirl\u0259rin t\u0259sirin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck. “B\u0259s, \u0259slind\u0259 nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?”, sual\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 aparmaq ist\u0259dik. \u00dcz tutduq h\u0259r zaman kar\u0131m\u0131za g\u0259l\u0259n m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sosioloq-alim, \u015fair-publisist \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu Millinews.az<\/a>–<\/strong>a deyib ki, emosional t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n m\u0259nas\u0131 n\u0259fs dem\u0259kdir:<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf edir\u0259m ki, \u018ffsan\u0259 xan\u0131m bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z deyib. O bu s\u00f6z\u00fc t\u0259bii ki, psixoloq kimi dem\u0259yib, t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131 bir az art\u0131q olan xan\u0131m kimi deyib. Bel\u0259 xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z da ola bil\u0259r. Bir \u015fey\u0259 n\u0259fsi d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k emosional ehtiyacd\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259 \u0259n q\u0259dimd\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fcdrik insanlar n\u0259fs\u0259 uymama\u011f\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edibl\u0259r. Lap q\u0259dim dini kitablar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131ndan h\u0259tta \u201cQuran\u0131-K\u0259rim\u201dd\u0259n d\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259l Ad\u0259ml\u0259 H\u0259vvan\u0131n n\u0259fs m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si var. Ad\u0259ml\u0259 H\u0259vva c\u0259nn\u0259td\u0259 qada\u011fan olunmu\u015f a\u011facdan qada\u011fan olunmu\u015f qidadan yem\u0259s\u0259ydil\u0259r y\u0259qin ki, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n taleyi ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr olard\u0131. M\u0259nim bir \u015feirim var, \u015feirin ad\u0131 bel\u0259dir – “Qada\u011fan olunmu\u015f a\u011fac”. M\u0259n o \u015feird\u0259 izah el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam ki, qada\u011fan olunan \u015fey el\u0259 n\u0259fsdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n n\u0259fsi olanda o \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmir. N\u0259fsini idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n adam b\u0259z\u0259n el\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r edir ki, \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131 v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn arzuolunmaz olur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 orucluq ay\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 n\u0259fsi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ay\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni o bir ay \u0259rzind\u0259 s\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn sah\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259fsini t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259lis\u0259n. El\u0259 n\u0259fsin n\u0259 ist\u0259di onu etm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. Bunu t\u0259kc\u0259 m\u0259n demir\u0259m, dini kitablar, m\u00fcdrik insanlar da deyir”.<\/p>\n

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Sosioloq \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini n\u0259fsinin \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 ver\u0259nd\u0259 maddi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259bat \u00e7oxal\u0131r:<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn tarix g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, ail\u0259, i\u015f, \u015f\u0259h\u0259r, yer \u00fcz\u00fc f\u0259rqi yoxdur, hara olursa olsun maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat, n\u0259fs g\u00fccl\u00fc olursa, orada h\u00f6km\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131durma yaran\u0131r, g\u0259rginlik olur. N\u0259sir\u0259ddin Tusinin \u201c\u018fxlaqi-Nasiri\u201d \u0259s\u0259rind\u0259 ba\u015fdan-aya\u011fa n\u0259fsin t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259n b\u0259hs edilir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 insanlar q\u0259dimd\u0259n maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259 verm\u0259yi, n\u0259fsi \u00f6n\u0259 verm\u0259yi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u0259yibl\u0259r. Harada ki, maddi g\u0259lirl\u0259rin \u0259ksin\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilir, orada bir ah\u0259ng, g\u00f6z\u0259l m\u00fcnasib\u0259t olur. \u00d6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bu maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n t\u0259bli\u011fin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fi aparmal\u0131y\u0131q. Ail\u0259nin i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat \u00f6nd\u0259 olarsa ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, daha g\u00f6z\u0259l xalq olaraq n\u0259fsimizin t\u0259rbiy\u0259si sah\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc inki\u015faf etdir\u0259k. Kimki c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 n\u0259fsi, maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131 daha \u00e7ox t\u0259bli\u011f edirs\u0259, o adamlar s\u0259hv yoldad\u0131r. Bunlar ham\u0131s\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259timiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ziyanl\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259rdir. Bu \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7maq laz\u0131md\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Jurnalistl\u0259rin H\u0259mkarlar \u0130ttifaq\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri, media eksperti M\u00fc\u015ffiq \u018fl\u0259sg\u0259rli<\/strong> bildirib ki, d\u00fcnya miqyas\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 art\u0131r:<\/p>\n

\u201cBo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 artmaqla yana\u015f\u0131, evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rin d\u0259 say\u0131 azal\u0131r. Bu iki prosesin ortaq n\u0259tic\u0259si ail\u0259 institutunun s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259hv olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu proses is\u0259 kiml\u0259rins\u0259 xo\u015funa g\u0259lir, sanki d\u0259st\u0259k verirl\u0259r. Narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan odur ki, ail\u0259 institutu da\u011f\u0131danlar g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131 modeli qururlar? Ya el\u0259 bir model yoxdur, ya da onu \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarma\u011fa qorxurlar. \u00d6lk\u0259miz ail\u0259 institutuna d\u0259y\u0259r verir, onu qoruyub saxlama\u011fa c\u0259hd g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Az\u0259rbaycan d\u00f6vl\u0259ti \u0259n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif mexanizml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. X\u00fcsusi ixtisasla\u015fm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259 u\u015faq probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif komit\u0259l\u0259r var. Ail\u0259l\u0259rin qurulmas\u0131, m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirilm\u0259si v\u0259 sa\u011flam \u00f6z\u00fcld\u0259 yarad\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn stimulla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 add\u0131mlar at\u0131l\u0131r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bunun \u0259ksin\u0259 olan prosesl\u0259r d\u0259 gedir. \u00d6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmas\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 s\u00fcni r\u0259y yarad\u0131l\u0131r. Feminizmin inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcxt\u0259lif q\u00fcvv\u0259ll\u0259r add\u0131m at\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Ekspert diqq\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131b ki, haz\u0131rda Az\u0259rbaycanda t\u0259tbiq olunan feminizm klassik deyil, bu c\u0259r\u0259yan\u0131n ad\u0131 radikal feminizimdir:<\/p>\n

\u201cRadikal feminizim d\u0259 ail\u0259 institutuna zidd olan, da\u011f\u0131d\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, xaosu, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259ni t\u0259\u015ffiq ed\u0259n bir c\u0259r\u0259yand\u0131r. Bu c\u0259r\u0259yanla yana\u015f\u0131 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi mediada da ail\u0259 institutuna x\u0259l\u0259l yetir\u0259n fikirl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 \u015fahid oluruq. Yeni yetkin ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atanlar, evlilik \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 olanlar bu c\u00fcr fikirl\u0259ri e\u015fidirl\u0259r. Bu da onlara t\u0259sir edir. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc psixoloq hesab ed\u0259n, c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n v\u0259 televiziya efirin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan bir \u015f\u0259xsin neqativ fikirl\u0259r yaymas\u0131 narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan bir hald\u0131r. Bu kimi hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00f6vl\u0259tin \u0259sas h\u0259d\u0259fi ail\u0259 institunu qorumaq oldu\u011fu halda, televiziyada bel\u0259 fikrin olmas\u0131 do\u011fru deyil. K\u0130V c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259r\u0259rli olan fikirl\u0259rin yay\u0131lmas\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratmam\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcr neqativ prosesl\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259m\u0259lidir\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Milli M\u0259clisin deputat\u0131 M\u0259lah\u0259t \u0130brahimq\u0131z\u0131<\/strong> deyib ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r bir pe\u015f\u0259 sahibi i\u015find\u0259 son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n

\u201cO ki, qald\u0131 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xs televiziyaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rsa dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcb, bir bi\u00e7m\u0259lidir. Pe\u015f\u0259sind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri dey\u0259n bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nd\u0131rsa bu r\u0259zal\u0259t dem\u0259kdir. \u00d6z xalq\u0131n\u0131n milli d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259hqirdir. T\u0259hqirl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n beynini z\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259m\u0259kdir. Bu g\u00fcn e\u015fitdiyimizi unuda bil\u0259rik, amma bu bizim \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131m\u0131zda qal\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259 bunu dinl\u0259y\u0259n 20-21 ya\u015fl\u0131 cavand\u0131rsa. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r adi g\u0259ls\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 vurulan da\u011f\u0131d\u0131c\u0131 z\u0259rb\u0259dir\u201d.<\/p>\n

Aysel \u015eahmar <\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0259qal\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan Respublikas\u0131n\u0131n Median\u0131n \u0130nki\u015faf\u0131 Agentliyinin (MED\u0130A) maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi il\u0259 \u201cGender, ail\u0259 v\u0259 demoqrafiya m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rinin i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131\u201d istiqam\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 haz\u0131rlan\u0131b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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