{"id":23349,"date":"2026-06-02T12:59:34","date_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=23349"},"modified":"2026-06-02T12:59:35","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:59:35","slug":"bosanmis-qadinlar-niy%c9%99-b%c9%99zi-kisil%c9%99r%c9%99-daha-c%c9%99lbedici-gorunur-psixoloq-el%c9%99-seyl%c9%99r-danisdi-ki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=23349","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlar niy\u0259 b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 daha c\u0259lbedici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr? \u2013\u00a0Psixoloq el\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131 ki&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 bax\u0131\u015f t\u0259rzi d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, insanlar\u0131n partnyor se\u00e7imind\u0259 d\u0259 f\u0259rqli meyill\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 b\u0259zi subay ki\u015fil\u0259rin bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verm\u0259si c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 tez-tez m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunan m\u00f6vzulardan biridir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0259s b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259ri bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131ran \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259l\u0259rdir?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0KONKRET.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq Dilruba H\u0259s\u0259nova bildirib ki, b\u0259zi subay ki\u015fil\u0259rin bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara y\u00f6n\u0259lm\u0259si t\u0259kc\u0259 emosional se\u00e7im deyil, bu, insan psixikas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik, reall\u0131q v\u0259 emosional yetkinlik axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, psixoanalitik yana\u015fmaya \u0259sas\u0259n insan \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc emosional olaraq ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f hiss etdiyi insanlara yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r:<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n \u0259n d\u0259rin ehtiyac\u0131 ideal obraz yox, taml\u0131q hissidir. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n is\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt h\u0259yat\u0131n romantik ill\u00fcziyas\u0131ndan ke\u00e7mi\u015f olur. O, sevgini art\u0131q na\u011f\u0131l kimi deyil, psixoloji uy\u011funluq v\u0259 daxili rahatl\u0131q kimi q\u0259bul edir. Bu is\u0259 b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 g\u00fcv\u0259n hissi yarad\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Psixoloq qeyd edib ki, emosional bax\u0131mdan yetkin insanlar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 sahib olmaqdan daha \u00e7ox anlama\u011fa v\u0259 q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r:<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cH\u0259yat\u0131nda x\u0259yal q\u0131r\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 itki ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 manipulyativ davran\u0131\u015flardan daha uzaq olurlar. Travma insan\u0131n ya eqosunu s\u0259rtl\u0259\u015fdirir, ya da onu h\u0259yat\u0131n ger\u00e7\u0259kliyi il\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 qoyur. \u0130nsan beyni is\u0259 xaosdan sonra sabitliy\u0259 meyl edir. Davaml\u0131 emosional qeyri-m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nlik ya\u015fayan b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r daha sakit, hissl\u0259rini tan\u0131yan v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 s\u0259rh\u0259d qoya bil\u0259n qad\u0131nlara y\u00f6n\u0259lirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ekspert vur\u011fulay\u0131b ki, insan b\u0259z\u0259n a\u015fiq oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, yan\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc rahat v\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hiss etdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn birin\u0259 ba\u011flan\u0131r:<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBeyind\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz emosional ba\u011f formala\u015fd\u0131qda kortizol s\u0259viyy\u0259si a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, g\u00fcv\u0259n hissi art\u0131r. Y\u0259ni insan\u0131n sinir sistemi sakitl\u0259\u015fdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131r. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n art\u0131q m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 kimis\u0259 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc itirm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn davran\u0131r. Bu f\u0259rq emosional yetkin ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259lbedici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bilir\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dilruba H\u0259s\u0259nova \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00e7ox zaman bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlar\u0131 u\u011fursuz m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin n\u0259tic\u0259si kimi t\u0259qdim ets\u0259 d\u0259, psixologiyada m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin bitm\u0259si h\u0259r zaman u\u011fursuzluq hesab edilmir:<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cB\u0259z\u0259n ayr\u0131l\u0131q insan\u0131n \u00f6z psixikas\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn verdiyi \u0259n sa\u011flam q\u0259rar olur. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc da\u011f\u0131dan m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaq, onu davam etdirm\u0259kd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox c\u0259sar\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b edir. \u018fslind\u0259 b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259ri bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n onlar\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015fi deyil, h\u0259yata art\u0131q ill\u00fcziyas\u0131z baxmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar sosial t\u0259zyiql\u0259rd\u0259n uzaq, daha az stereotipl\u0259rl\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, \u00f6z ruhlar\u0131na yax\u0131n insanlarla daha sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r qura bil\u0259rl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bizim kimi c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 bu, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 tam q\u0259bul olunmur\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 bax\u0131\u015f t\u0259rzi d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, insanlar\u0131n partnyor se\u00e7imind\u0259 d\u0259 f\u0259rqli meyill\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 b\u0259zi subay ki\u015fil\u0259rin bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verm\u0259si c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 tez-tez m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunan m\u00f6vzulardan biridir. B\u0259s b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259ri bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131ran \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259l\u0259rdir? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0KONKRET.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq Dilruba H\u0259s\u0259nova bildirib ki, b\u0259zi subay ki\u015fil\u0259rin bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara y\u00f6n\u0259lm\u0259si t\u0259kc\u0259 &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":23350,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-idman"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23349"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23349\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23351,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23349\/revisions\/23351"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/23350"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}