{"id":21519,"date":"2025-12-30T21:14:15","date_gmt":"2025-12-30T21:14:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=21519"},"modified":"2025-12-30T21:14:16","modified_gmt":"2025-12-30T21:14:16","slug":"adim-cixdi-17-yasinda-ail%c9%99-qurmali-oldum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=21519","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAd\u0131m \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131, 17 ya\u015f\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurmal\u0131 oldum&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>\u201cB\u0259zi g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar var ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra 16-17 ya\u015f\u0131nda evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar oxumaqdan \u00e7ox, ana olmaq, yax\u015f\u0131 bir ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni \u0130lham\u0259 Qas\u0131mova m\u00fcsahib\u0259sind\u0259 bildirib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>17 ya\u015f\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fan m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni bunun \u00f6z se\u00e7imi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vur\u011fulay\u0131b:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBunu m\u0259n ist\u0259m\u0259dim, bunu toplum ist\u0259di. Bir insan\u0131n ad\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131nca, can\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xsa yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ad\u0131m \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131 v\u0259 kim g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcs\u0259, valideynl\u0259rimi t\u0259brik edirdi. Amma \u0259slind\u0259, bir il boyunca biz s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t i\u00e7ind\u0259 olduq. Sonra da bu oldu. Bel\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u015flayan i\u015fin d\u0259 sonu olmur. \u0130ndi bel\u0259 deyil. \u0130ndi g\u0259ncl\u0259rin ist\u0259kl\u0259ri f\u0259rqlidir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri oxumaqdan \u00e7ox, ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. M\u0259n buna pis baxm\u0131ram. \u0130nsan \u00f6z ist\u0259diyi h\u0259yat\u0131 qurursa, dem\u0259li, o xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ox z\u0259kal\u0131 olub, \u00e7ox d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k d\u0259 qad\u0131na xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirmir. Ka\u015f ki, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rim, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm az olayd\u0131, amma m\u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt olard\u0131m. \u00c7ox istedadl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ba\u015fqalar\u0131 kimi xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259si olmur. He\u00e7 kim t\u0259k olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 quranda is\u0259 el\u0259 bir insanla ail\u0259 qurmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, s\u0259ninl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bilsin. \u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 inam olmal\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0259ninl\u0259 eyni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259 olan adam\u0131 tapmaq \u00e7\u0259tindir. El\u0259 biri olsa niy\u0259 t\u0259k qalasan ki?\u201d, \u2013 m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni qeyd edib.\/\/Lent.az<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cB\u0259zi g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar var ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra 16-17 ya\u015f\u0131nda evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar oxumaqdan \u00e7ox, ana olmaq, yax\u015f\u0131 bir ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r\u201d. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni \u0130lham\u0259 Qas\u0131mova m\u00fcsahib\u0259sind\u0259 bildirib. 17 ya\u015f\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fan m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni bunun \u00f6z se\u00e7imi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vur\u011fulay\u0131b: \u201cBunu m\u0259n ist\u0259m\u0259dim, bunu toplum ist\u0259di. Bir insan\u0131n ad\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131nca, can\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xsa yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ad\u0131m &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21520,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-idman"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21519"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21521,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519\/revisions\/21521"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21520"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21519"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21519"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21519"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}