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O, h\u0259yat\u0131nda inqilab ed\u0259n xan\u0131mlardand\u0131r. 25 ya\u015f\u0131nda, 15 ya\u015f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n ara verdiyi t\u0259hsilin\u0259 davam edib. Xadim\u0259, u\u015faq bax\u0131c\u0131s\u0131, d\u00fckanda gec\u0259 n\u00f6vb\u0259t\u00e7isi, evl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259mizlik\u00e7i i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259-i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259m ail\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k olub, h\u0259m d\u0259 arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 diploma sahib olub. M\u00fcsahibimiz \u00f6z h\u0259yat hekay\u0259si, m\u00fcbarizliyi il\u0259 t\u0259hsil almaq ist\u0259y\u0259n, “Daha gecdir\u201d dey\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 xan\u0131mlara \u00f6rn\u0259k olan Aynur\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rovad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u00c7\u00f6r\u0259yin dad\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 dama\u011f\u0131mdad\u0131r\u201d<\/strong> \n<\/p>\n

1990-c\u0131 ild\u0259 A\u011fsu rayonunun Da\u015fd\u0259mirb\u0259yli k\u0259ndind\u0259 anadan olub. U\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131 yadda\u015f\u0131nda kas\u0131bl\u0131q, \u00e7\u0259tinlik d\u00f6vr\u00fc kimi qal\u0131b. M\u0259hz kas\u0131bl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 9-cu sinifd\u0259n t\u0259hsilini yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qoyub: “O ill\u0259ri unuda bilmir\u0259m. M\u0259n u\u015faql\u0131q deyil\u0259nd\u0259 ancaq acl\u0131q xat\u0131rlay\u0131ram. O k\u0259ndin sakinl\u0259ri d\u0259 bil\u0259r, \u00e7ox kas\u0131b idik. Anam cehizl\u0259rini sat\u0131b un al\u0131rd\u0131. 1995-ci ild\u0259 yediyim \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yin dad\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 dama\u011f\u0131mdad\u0131r. Anam ac\u0131 mayadan \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k bi\u015firmi\u015fdi. Dad\u0131 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q tur\u015f idi, amma evd\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeyirdik. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, bizim he\u00e7 vaxt oyunca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olmay\u0131b. Pal\u00e7\u0131qdan qablar d\u00fcz\u0259ldir, onunla oynay\u0131rd\u0131q\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Q\u0131z\u0131m, s\u0259ni oxutma\u011fa maddi g\u00fcc\u00fcm yoxdur\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aynur\u0259 orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 oxudu\u011fu d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 anas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259rsd\u0259n sonra pamb\u0131q, g\u00fcn\u0259baxan sah\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 ged\u0259rmi\u015f. Bununla bel\u0259, bac\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259 “yax\u015f\u0131 oxuyan S\u0259f\u0259rova bac\u0131lar\u0131\u201d kimi tan\u0131n\u0131blar: “N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259s\u0259k d\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 oxuyurduq. Atam h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 valideyn iclas\u0131na q\u00fcrurla g\u0259lirdi. Deyirdi ki, n\u0259 olursa-olsun, sizi oxudaca\u011fam. Ali t\u0259hsilli olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131z atam\u0131n arzusu idi\u201d.<\/p>\n

Lakin atas\u0131n\u0131n erk\u0259n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7\u0259tin h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirib v\u0259 Aynur\u0259 t\u0259hsilini yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qoymaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131b: “Atam traktor s\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fcs\u00fc idi. A\u011fsunun bir \u00e7ox k\u0259ndl\u0259rinin torpaq sah\u0259l\u0259rini o \u015fumlay\u0131rd\u0131. Amma x\u0259st\u0259 idi. He\u00e7 vaxt unutmuram, 25 may son z\u0259ng g\u00fcn\u00fc idi. Anam b\u00f6yr\u0259k h\u0259kimin\u0259, atam m\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259kimin\u0259 getmi\u015fdi. Atam x\u0259st\u0259xanadan g\u0259ldikd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fck ki, a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131r. U\u015faql\u0131qda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u0259ni qarn\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r, deyirdi ki, “Qarn\u0131mda \u015far var, o partlayanda m\u0259n \u00f6l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m\u201d. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ki, zarafat edir. Son z\u0259ng m\u0259rasimind\u0259n ev\u0259 g\u0259ldik, atam dedi ki, q\u0131z\u0131m, \u015far partlad\u0131, \u0259mini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r. Atam\u0131 q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 taksiyl\u0259 apard\u0131lar, bir d\u0259 qay\u0131tmad\u0131. Atam \u00f6l\u0259nd\u0259 11 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi. 9-cu sinf\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 g\u0259ldik. N\u0259 geyimimiz olurdu, n\u0259 d\u0259 yem\u0259yimiz. Qohumlar\u0131m\u0131z da k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259di, t\u0259k qald\u0131q. Sonra anam m\u0259ni m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131, Bak\u0131ya g\u0259ldik. Yad\u0131mdad\u0131r, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xanda direktor \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259mi vermirdi. Deyirdi ki, “M\u0259n bu \u015fagirdi itir\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m, aparacaqs\u0131n\u0131z, oxutmayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z\u201d. \u00dcmidim var idi ki, \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259mi al\u0131b, Bak\u0131da kollecd\u0259 oxuyaram. Lakin anam dedi ki, q\u0131z\u0131m, s\u0259ni oxutma\u011fa maddi g\u00fcc\u00fcm yoxdur. M\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259 vidala\u015fd\u0131m v\u0259 Bak\u0131da i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131m\u201d.<\/p>\n

“10 il sonra t\u0259hsil h\u0259yat\u0131ma ba\u015flad\u0131m\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anas\u0131 xadim\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fc is\u0259 15 ya\u015f\u0131nda Bak\u0131da kis\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ldil\u0259n sexd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir: “Bir h\u0259ft\u0259 gec\u0259, bir h\u0259ft\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u00fcz n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirdim. H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259ll\u0259rimd\u0259 oran\u0131n izl\u0259ri var. Sonra qu\u015f\u00e7uluq fermas\u0131nda bac\u0131lar\u0131mla birlikd\u0259 h\u0259m ya\u015fay\u0131r, h\u0259m d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirdik. 10 il bel\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Daha sonra \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259lik ke\u00e7irdim, 6 ay x\u0259st\u0259xanada yatd\u0131m. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ki, m\u0259n kim\u0259s\u0259 pislik etm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, Allah m\u0259n\u0259 bu x\u0259st\u0259liyi veribs\u0259, m\u00fctl\u0259q bir s\u0259b\u0259bi var. X\u0259st\u0259xanada bir q\u0131zla tan\u0131\u015f oldum v\u0259 t\u0259hsil h\u0259yat\u0131ma ba\u015flamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 10 il sonra \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259 g\u00fcc tapd\u0131m\u201d.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahibimizin palata yolda\u015f\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259b q\u0259zetl\u0259rind\u0259n birind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir, yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259ri olan \u015fagirdl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcsahib\u0259l\u0259r edirmi\u015f. Aynur\u0259 d\u0259 r\u0259fiq\u0259sin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o m\u00fcsahib\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 yollan\u0131b. Deyir ki, el\u0259 bil o x\u0259st\u0259lik m\u0259n\u0259 \u015fill\u0259 kimi d\u0259ydi ki, ay\u0131l, art\u0131q t\u0259hsil almal\u0131san: “M\u00fcsahib\u0259 m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 o u\u015faqlar dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qca, m\u0259n\u0259 motivasiya verirdi. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ki, bu u\u015faqlar bacar\u0131rsa, m\u0259n d\u0259 bacararam. 25 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi. O q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259nirdim ki… Ev\u0259 g\u0259ldim, dedim ki, “Ana, m\u0259n oxuyacam\u201d. Anam yen\u0259 dedi ki, m\u0259ni oxuda bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, attestat\u0131m bel\u0259 yox idi. Amma f\u0259hl\u0259lik etdiyim g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259, h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 metronun “Elml\u0259r Akademiyas\u0131\u201d stansiyas\u0131na \u00e7atanda, g\u00f6zl\u0259rimi yumurdum ki, bir g\u00fcn buradan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 kimi \u00e7\u0131xaca\u011fam\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Ail\u0259 quracaqsan, t\u0259hsil almaq yad\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anas\u0131n\u0131n Aynur\u0259ni oxutma\u011fa maddi g\u00fcc\u00fc olmasa da, ona m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259st\u0259k olub. \u0130\u015fl\u0259diyi yem\u0259kxanan\u0131n m\u00fcdirinin qohumu o vaxtlar Bak\u0131 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Pe\u015f\u0259 T\u0259hsil M\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 direktor olub. Onun istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259si il\u0259 Aynur\u0259 burada t\u0259hsilini davam etdirib: “Anam bir illik ixtisas se\u00e7m\u0259yimi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Amma m\u0259nim m\u0259qs\u0259dim universitet oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn attestat almal\u0131 idim. H\u0259tta bir m\u00fc\u0259llim anamla birlikd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 “Bu ya\u015fda n\u0259 d\u0259rs oxumaq, ail\u0259 quracaqsan, t\u0259hsil almaq yad\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k\u201d dedi. M\u0259n\u0259 mane olmamalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ixtisas se\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259k getdim v\u0259 3 illik Pe\u015f\u0259 T\u0259hsil M\u0259rk\u0259zin\u0259 q\u0259bul oldum\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Qrup yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n 15, m\u0259nim 25 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

2005-ci ild\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259 vidala\u015fan h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz 2015-ci ild\u0259 yenid\u0259n parta arxas\u0131na ke\u00e7ir: “T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, qrup yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n 15, m\u0259nim 25 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi. Adaptasiya ola bilmir, u\u015faqlarla nec\u0259 davranaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmirdim. Sonra sinif n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si oldum. M\u0259n d\u0259 onlarla u\u015faq kimi oldum. B\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259dbirl\u0259rd\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259rlik t\u0259dbirl\u0259rind\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak edirdim. H\u0259tta o zamanki direktor Fikr\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259llim m\u0259n\u0259 “\u0259sg\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131m\u201d deyirdi\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Evd\u0259n \u015for-\u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k g\u0259tirir, sinifd\u0259 gizlin yeyirdim\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maddi d\u0259st\u0259yi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn pe\u015f\u0259 t\u0259hsil m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 oxudu\u011fu vaxtlarda da g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yib: “M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, Yeni il qaba\u011f\u0131 marketd\u0259 “qar q\u0131z\u201d kimi i\u015fl\u0259yirdim. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 10 manat verirdil\u0259r, s\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259n ax\u015fama kimi dayan\u0131r, ayaqlar\u0131m donurdu. H\u0259tta bir g\u00fcn m\u0259ni f\u0259xri f\u0259rmanla t\u0259ltif ed\u0259c\u0259kdil\u0259r, i\u015fd\u0259 oldu\u011fum \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn auditoriyada f\u0259xri f\u0259rman\u0131m\u0131 ala bilm\u0259dim. 50 manat t\u0259qa\u00fcd al\u0131r, yol pulumu o t\u0259qa\u00fcdl\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259yirdim. D\u0259rs\u0259 getm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn laz\u0131m olan 4 n\u0259qliyyat vasit\u0259sinin ikisini istifad\u0259 edir, piyada gedirdim ki, maksimum az x\u0259rcim \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n. H\u0259r g\u00fcn Qala k\u0259ndind\u0259n \u018fhm\u0259dliy\u0259 gedirdim. Evd\u0259n \u015for-\u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k g\u0259tirir, sinifd\u0259 gizlin yeyirdim. Amma m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimin sevimli t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259si olma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m\u201d.<\/p>\n

O m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259 ba\u015f verdi…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aynur\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 olsa da, universitet x\u0259yal\u0131na add\u0131m-add\u0131m yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Lakin haz\u0131rla\u015fmaq q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259rs v\u0259saiti var idi, n\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim yan\u0131na getm\u0259y\u0259 pulu: “Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 qad\u0131n qrupunda status yazd\u0131m. Oradak\u0131 xan\u0131mlar m\u0259n\u0259 kitab verdi. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min qrupdan Az\u0259rbaycan dili, \u0259d\u0259biyyat f\u0259nnind\u0259n bir m\u00fc\u0259llim m\u0259ni pulsuz haz\u0131rlad\u0131. H\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259llimim m\u0259n\u0259 x\u0259rclik d\u0259 verirdi. Sonra tarix m\u00fc\u0259llimim m\u0259ni t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z haz\u0131rlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirdi. \u0130ngilis dilind\u0259n is\u0259 bir xan\u0131m \u00f6z\u00fc m\u0259n\u0259 ayl\u0131q ingilis dili f\u0259nnind\u0259n haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015fini edirdi ki, oxuyum. \u0130mtahan verdim v\u0259 o m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259 realla\u015fd\u0131. Bak\u0131 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Universitetinin kitabxana v\u0259 informasiya ixtisas\u0131na q\u0259bul oldum. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimin \u00fcz\u0259rimd\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259ri var. Onlara s\u00f6z verdim ki, m\u0259n d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 imkan\u0131 olmayan \u015fagirdl\u0259rin haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. M\u0259nc\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q da yoluxucudur. Onlar m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131ma toxundu, m\u0259n d\u0259 davam etdir\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m\u201d.<\/p>\n

“S\u0259h\u0259r d\u0259rs\u0259, g\u00fcnorta ev t\u0259mizliyin\u0259 gedirdim\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aynur\u0259 universitetd\u0259 oxuya-oxuya da i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 davam edib: “S\u0259h\u0259r d\u0259rs\u0259 gedir, g\u00fcnortadan ax\u015fama q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259diyim yerd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa, ev i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edirdim. H\u0259tta universitet\u0259 q\u0259bul x\u0259b\u0259rini d\u0259 ev t\u0259mizliyin\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 alm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Daha sonra bir marketd\u0259 xadim\u0259 kimi d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259dim. Bir qar\u0131n ac, bir qar\u0131n tox olurdum. Bununla bel\u0259, q\u0131\u015fda soyuq havada qalan x\u0259st\u0259 pi\u015fiy\u0259 d\u0259 sahibl\u0259ndim. Yem\u0259yimi onunla b\u00f6ld\u00fcm. B\u0259z\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, m\u0259n dilsiz heyvana ev oldum, Allah da m\u0259ni yax\u015f\u0131 insanlarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u201d.<\/p>\n

Bakalavr\u0131 bitirdikd\u0259n sonra bununla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259yib, magistraturaya haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131b: “Yen\u0259 d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259-i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259 oxudum, magistraturaya q\u0259bul oldum. H\u0259m bakalavr\u0131, h\u0259m magistraturan\u0131 \u0259la qiym\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 bitirdim. Haz\u0131rda da q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 diploma namiz\u0259d\u0259m. H\u0259tta d\u00f6vl\u0259t qullu\u011fu imtahan\u0131ndan da m\u00fcsahib\u0259 v\u0259 test m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sini y\u00fcks\u0259k balla ke\u00e7dim. 20 baldan 18 bal toplad\u0131m. Se\u00e7diyim vakansiyaya 404 insan m\u00fcraci\u0259t etmi\u015fdi, yegan\u0259 18 bal m\u0259nd\u0259 idi. Haz\u0131rda M\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t Nazirliyinin ehtiyat kadrlar siyah\u0131s\u0131ndayam. \u00dcmid edir\u0259m d\u00f6vl\u0259t qulluq\u00e7usu olmaq arzum da realla\u015facaq\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Bil ki, q\u0131z\u0131n bacard\u0131…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aynur\u0259 t\u0259k \u00f6z arzusunu deyil, 11 ya\u015f\u0131nda itirdiyi atas\u0131n\u0131n da arzusunu realla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131b: “Atam\u0131n q\u0259brinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 nadir hallarda gedir\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki s\u00f6z vermi\u015f\u0259m ki, onu diplomlar\u0131m, i\u015f v\u0259siq\u0259ml\u0259 ziyar\u0259t ed\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m v\u0259 dey\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m ki, ata, m\u0259n s\u0259nin arzunu yerin\u0259 yetirdim. Bil ki, q\u0131z\u0131n bacard\u0131\u201d.<\/p>\n

“Evlilik g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r, t\u0259hsil is\u0259 yox\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aynur\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc kimi arzular\u0131 yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qalan, xilas yolunu ail\u0259 qurmaqda g\u00f6r\u0259n h\u0259mcinsl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259ndi. Deyir ki, ona da d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259, “Ail\u0259 qur, s\u0259nin d\u0259 arxa-daya\u011f\u0131n olsun, t\u0259hsil almaq bu ya\u015fdan sonra m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil\u201d dey\u0259nl\u0259r olub: “Evlilik g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r, t\u0259hsil is\u0259 yox. Haz\u0131rda 34 ya\u015f\u0131m var v\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259n il \u00f6z sevib, se\u00e7diyim insanla ni\u015fanland\u0131m. Bu ya\u015f\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox el\u00e7i g\u0259lib v\u0259 anam da m\u0259ni verm\u0259k ist\u0259yib. Amma m\u0259qs\u0259dim q\u0259ti idi v\u0259 m\u0259n oxumal\u0131 idim. X\u00fcsusil\u0259, m\u0259nim v\u0259ziyy\u0259timd\u0259 olan xan\u0131mlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa xilas olmaq kimi bax\u0131rlar. He\u00e7 bir xan\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini hans\u0131sa ki\u015fiy\u0259 etibar etm\u0259m\u0259lidir. N\u0259 qarda\u015f, n\u0259 \u0259r, n\u0259 ata… Atam 33 ya\u015f\u0131nda r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 gedib. Anam g\u0259nc ya\u015f\u0131nda 4 u\u015faqla t\u0259k qal\u0131b. H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u0259minlikl\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131na etibar ed\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n? Qad\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259k xilaskar\u0131 t\u0259hsildir. Qalan h\u0259r \u015fey t\u0259hsild\u0259n sonra g\u0259lir. \u00dcst\u0259lik, universitet t\u0259k t\u0259hsil vermir, h\u0259m d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin r\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259nir. He\u00e7 kim “\u00e7\u0259tindir, bacarmaram\u201d dem\u0259sin. M\u0259n \u015for-\u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k yey\u0259-yey\u0259, f\u0259hl\u0259lik ed\u0259-ed\u0259 bacard\u0131msa, h\u0259r k\u0259s bacarar. \u0130nsan h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 qadirdir, \u0259sas ist\u0259m\u0259kdir\u201d. <\/p>\n

M\u0259nb\u0259: “Kaspi” q\u0259zeti<\/strong>
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