{"id":16609,"date":"2024-12-10T07:45:58","date_gmt":"2024-12-10T07:45:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16609"},"modified":"2024-12-10T07:45:59","modified_gmt":"2024-12-10T07:45:59","slug":"4-il-idi-%C9%99rimin-basqa-qadini-sevdiyini-bilirdim-%C9%99g%C9%99r-sevirs%C9%99-qoy-xosb%C9%99xt-olsun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16609","title":{"rendered":"\u201c4 il idi \u0259rimin ba\u015fqa qad\u0131n\u0131 sevdiyini bilirdim, \u0259g\u0259r sevirs\u0259 qoy xo\u015fb\u0259xt olsun”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cBac\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7 il a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259 oldu amma \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. O \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 payla\u015fanda \u0259taraf\u0131m\u0131zdakilar yaz\u0131rd\u0131lar ki, bunun n\u0259yi x\u0259st\u0259dir. Amma bac\u0131m\u0131n x\u0259st\u0259liyini biz g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fck. O deyirdi, g\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc, oynay\u0131rd\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259nib \u2013 d\u00fcz\u0259nirdi. Amma reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 biz \u00f6z g\u00f6zl\u0259rimizl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fck. Bunu is\u0259 insanlar g\u00f6rm\u00fcrd\u00fc. Onun yaralar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259n bir bac\u0131 olaraq g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcm\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

OLAY yaz\u0131r ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni Aynur Dada\u015fova qonaq oldu\u011fu \u201cH\u0259ft\u0259nin qona\u011f\u0131\u201d verili\u015find\u0259 deyib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0259n\u0259t\u00e7i bildirib ki, \u0259traf\u0131nda el\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r var ki, onun arxas\u0131yca dan\u0131\u015fan h\u0259mkarlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259sini yaz\u0131b ona dinl\u0259dirl\u0259r:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u015eou-biznesd\u0259 k\u0259narda olsam da k\u0259narda tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m insanlar var. Bu camiy\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox insan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilir\u0259m. Onlar\u0131n s\u0259sl\u0259rini qoyub m\u0259n\u0259 qulaq asd\u0131r\u0131rlar. Filan m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni haqq\u0131mda n\u0259s\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fanda onun s\u0259sini yaz\u0131rlar sonra da m\u0259n\u0259 dinl\u0259dirl\u0259r. B\u0259li, \u0259traf\u0131mda bel\u0259 insanlar var. Bir insan \u0259g\u0259r ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yan\u0131mda dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa o yax\u015f\u0131 adma ola bilm\u0259z. M\u0259n bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l bilir\u0259m. Ax\u0131 o adam m\u0259nim d\u0259 yan\u0131mdad\u0131r. Bu insan gedib m\u0259nim d\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc ba\u015fqa birisin\u0259 dey\u0259c\u0259k. \u0130ndi bir \u00e7ox insanlar bunu edir. O s\u00fcbut etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir ki, bu insan s\u0259nin haqq\u0131nda pis m\u00f6vqed\u0259dir. S\u00fcbutla g\u0259tirir v\u0259 dinl\u0259dir. Amma m\u0259n o s\u0259si dinl\u0259d\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131 yen\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131yam.   M\u0259n he\u00e7 zaman d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259ni \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rmaram. \u018fksin\u0259 yax\u0131n\u0131ma \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259r\u0259m\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0259kkiz il \u0259vv\u0259l ail\u0259sinin da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n Aynur bildirib ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 tutub:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c8 ildir ki, ail\u0259m yoxdur. H\u0259yat\u0131mda he\u00e7 kim yoxdur. Buna da mara\u011f\u0131m v\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sim d\u0259 buna yoxdur. \u00c7ox i\u015fl\u0259yir\u0259m, \u00e7ox \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram, zaman\u0131m dem\u0259k olar ki, yoxdur. \u00c7ox ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, \u015f\u0259xsi biznesim olsun. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar apar\u0131r\u0131am. Qad\u0131n sizc\u0259 \u0259rind\u0259n niy\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r? 18 il s\u0259bri b\u00f6y\u00fck bir s\u0259brdir. B\u00fct\u00fcn xan\u0131mlar ist\u0259y\u0259r ki, yan\u0131nda g\u00fccl\u00fc ki\u015fi, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131, sevdiyi insan olsun. Demir\u0259m ki, o pis insan olsun. O \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 insan olub. M\u0259n tikanl\u0131 g\u00fcl olub ortada qalmaq ist\u0259mirm. K\u0259nara \u00e7\u0259kils\u0259m daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. N\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 \u00f6tr\u00fc g\u00fcnd\u0259 qan \u2013 qara\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q. Ba\u015fqa xan\u0131mla ill\u0259rdir ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti varsa art\u0131q orada sevgi yoxdur. S\u0259ni sevmir, ba\u015fqa, sevdiyi xan\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131ndad\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kilib k\u0259narda durdum ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xt h\u0259yat ya\u015fas\u0131n. \u018frimin ba\u015fqa qad\u0131n\u0131 sevm\u0259sini 4 il idi ki, bilirdim. \u018fg\u0259r o sevirs\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 qoy xo\u015fb\u0259xt olsun. M\u0259n niy\u0259 onlar\u0131n ortas\u0131nda qalmal\u0131yam. M\u0259n e\u015fidirdim amma inanm\u0131rd\u0131m ki, nec\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki, sevgi nifr\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evrilsin. El\u0259 \u015fey ola bilm\u0259z. Amma oldu\u2026 H\u0259r \u015feyi \u00f6z qula\u011f\u0131mla e\u015fid\u0259r\u0259k, b\u00fct\u00fcn dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlar\u0131 dinl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6yr\u0259ndim ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m m\u0259n\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir v\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 sevir. Bundan sonra m\u0259ni sudurqa tutdu. \u00c7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l insan olub. Bir xan\u0131m kimi xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmu\u015fam. Amma indi \u00f6z\u00fcm \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir\u0259m, i\u015fl\u0259yir\u0259m. Bir insan \u0259g\u0259r \u00f6z xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini tap\u0131rsa ona niy\u0259 pislik etm\u0259liy\u0259m? \u018fziyy\u0259ti \u00f6z\u00fcm \u00e7\u0259kdim. O dem\u0259di ki, m\u0259n s\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131lmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Bunu m\u0259n ona dedim. O bilm\u0259di ki, telefon a\u00e7\u0131q qal\u0131b v\u0259 onun ba\u015fqa xan\u0131mla dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259n ba\u015fqa telefonla e\u015fidir\u0259m. H\u0259yatd\u0131r da\u2026 \u0130nsan\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik olsa o daim xo\u015fb\u0259xt olar. Bizim aram\u0131zda e\u015fitdikl\u0259rimd\u0259n sonra dava olmad\u0131. Bunlar\u0131 ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 Allah edir. \u018fziyy\u0259ti m\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kdim amma ona dedim ki, get xo\u015fb\u0259xt ol. Onlar\u0131n ail\u0259 qurmaqlar\u0131 haqda m\u0259lumat\u0131m yoxdur, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu m\u0259n\u0259 maraql\u0131 deyil. O qad\u0131ndan \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n olub v\u0259 ya olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da bilmir\u0259m\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dada\u015fova u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n atalar\u0131 il\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259yib:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOnun m\u0259nd\u0259n olan u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Onlarla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. M\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131n atalar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tini k\u0259s\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Onlar alar\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r v\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259 buna qada\u011fa qoya bilm\u0259r\u0259m. O\u011flum s\u0259rb\u0259st h\u0259yat\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131r. Onun 13 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131 gedirdi T\u00fcrkiy\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 orada t\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131na futbol izl\u0259yirdi. Onun art\u0131q 20 ya\u015f\u0131 var. \u00d6vladlar\u0131ma \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 vermi\u015f\u0259m. Q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n 11 ya\u015f\u0131 var. Ona \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fir\u0259m ki, h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 icaz\u0259 ist\u0259yir. Q\u0131z\u0131m atas\u0131 il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r da, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr d\u0259. H\u0259rd\u0259n m\u0259nd\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q da yaran\u0131r ki, onlar nec\u0259 atalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. M\u0259nim he\u00e7 kim\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131m yoxdur. \u00c7\u0259tinliyim d\u0259 olsa qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 a\u011f\u0131z a\u00e7mam\u0131\u015fam, a\u00e7maram da. M\u0259n q\u00fcruruma sahibl\u0259n\u0259n insanam v\u0259 al\u00e7alda bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Y\u0259ni onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc z\u0259yif g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Proqram\u0131n apar\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00dclvira Qarayevan\u0131n \u201cS\u0259nin k\u00f6m\u0259yin\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 yaranarsa ona yard\u0131m ed\u0259rs\u0259n?\u201d sual\u0131na Aynur bel\u0259 cavab verib:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOnu he\u00e7 g\u00f6rm\u0259k bel\u0259 ist\u0259mir\u0259m. He\u00e7 yerd\u0259 onunla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m v\u0259 bunu da arzu etmir\u0259m. U\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri gedirl\u0259r onunla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r m\u0259n \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259yi ist\u0259mir\u0259m. Q\u0259lb q\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u2026 El\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259r var ki, onu dme\u0259k olmur. El\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259r v\u0259 k\u0259lm\u0259l\u0259r var ki, insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 par\u00e7alay\u0131r. \u00dcz\u00fcm h\u0259r zaman g\u00fcl\u00fcr amma i\u00e7im kitabd\u0131r. O kitab\u0131n h\u0259r v\u0259r\u0259qind\u0259n g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131 ax\u0131r. He\u00e7 bir xan\u0131m m\u0259nim q\u0259d\u0259r bel\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc, t\u0259mkinli v\u0259 s\u0259brli ola bilm\u0259z. M\u0259n onu tan\u0131yanda o imkanl\u0131 deyil idi. Sonra imkan\u0131 oldu, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 biznes qurdu. M\u0259n onu tan\u0131yanda \u201cbrend\u201d h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi yox idi. Son n\u0259s\u0259fim\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc olmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cBac\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7 il a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259 oldu amma \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. O \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 payla\u015fanda \u0259taraf\u0131m\u0131zdakilar yaz\u0131rd\u0131lar ki, bunun n\u0259yi x\u0259st\u0259dir. Amma bac\u0131m\u0131n x\u0259st\u0259liyini biz g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fck. O deyirdi, g\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc, oynay\u0131rd\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259nib \u2013 d\u00fcz\u0259nirdi. Amma reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 biz \u00f6z g\u00f6zl\u0259rimizl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fck. Bunu is\u0259 insanlar g\u00f6rm\u00fcrd\u00fc. Onun yaralar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259n bir bac\u0131 olaraq g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcm\u201d. OLAY yaz\u0131r ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16610,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16609"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16609\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16611,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16609\/revisions\/16611"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}