{"id":16388,"date":"2024-11-18T13:29:10","date_gmt":"2024-11-18T13:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16388"},"modified":"2024-11-18T13:29:12","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T13:29:12","slug":"qizi-%C9%99sg%C9%99r-kimi-boyudub-oglani-g%C9%99lin-kimi-nazlandirirlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16388","title":{"rendered":"“Q\u0131z\u0131 \u0259sg\u0259r kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb, o\u011flan\u0131 g\u0259lin kimi nazland\u0131r\u0131rlar”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

“M\u0259n demi\u015f\u0259m ki, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, ki\u015fil\u0259ri yeti\u015fdir\u0259n biz qad\u0131nlar\u0131q. Qad\u0131nlar da etdikl\u0259ri s\u0259hvl\u0259ri n\u0259sild\u0259n n\u0259sil\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r”.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri jurnalist P\u0259rviz H\u00fcseynin t\u0259qdimat\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan “P\u0259rviz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259” verili\u015find\u0259 \u018fm\u0259kdar artist Lal\u0259 M\u0259mm\u0259dova deyib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O bildirib ki, o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u0259sg\u0259r kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259lidir:

“\u00c7ox yax\u0131n tan\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n bir q\u0131z, bir o\u011flan \u00f6vlad\u0131 var. Q\u0131z oyanan kimi anas\u0131 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r ki, yerini y\u0131\u011fmam\u0131san, yek\u0259 q\u0131zsan, sabah evl\u0259r\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n. Amma o\u011ful 12-d\u0259 oyan\u0131r, deyir, s\u0259nin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 bi\u015firim? Yeri y\u0131\u011fma, ay\u0131bd\u0131r, ki\u015fi yer y\u0131\u011fmaz, paltarlar\u0131 \u00fct\u00fcl\u0259nir. Amma q\u0131z paltarlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fct\u00fcl\u0259m\u0259lidir, h\u0259l\u0259 atas\u0131na, qarda\u015f\u0131na, anas\u0131na qulluq etm\u0259lidir. Bunu bir m\u0259nada anlay\u0131ram. El\u0259 bil ki, q\u0131z\u0131 \u0259sg\u0259r kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r, o\u011flan\u0131n g\u0259lin kimi naz\u0131 il\u0259 oynay\u0131rlar. Xeyir ola? Bu, bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 var. O\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 q\u0131z bir ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrl\u0259r, ev o\u011fula qal\u0131r. Q\u0131z is\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259r, \u0259rinin evi olar, deyirl\u0259r.  Kiray\u0259 qalacaq, ya nec\u0259 olacaqsa, art\u0131q bu evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Q\u0131z\u0131 evd\u0259 qonaq kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bir n\u0259sili qad\u0131n yeti\u015fdirir. Qad\u0131n savadl\u0131 olanda n\u0259sil d\u0259 savadl\u0131 olur. Hac\u0131 Zeynalabdin Ta\u011f\u0131yev \u0259b\u0259s yer\u0259 q\u0131zlar seminariyas\u0131 a\u00e7mad\u0131. Ya da gerid\u0259 qalm\u0131\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fcharib\u0259 bitmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259hsili, savad\u0131 yoxdur. Onlar da savads\u0131z n\u0259sil b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o \u00f6vladlar da anaya ba\u011fl\u0131 olur. M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015fdan sonra m\u00fcst\u0259qil h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir. Savads\u0131z ana u\u015fa\u011fa n\u0259 versin? O m\u00fcst\u0259qil h\u0259yata da savads\u0131z, kor-koran\u0259 gedir. \u00c7oxlu s\u0259hvl\u0259r edir. M\u0259n o\u011flanlara qar\u015f\u0131 deyil\u0259m. Lakin ail\u0259d\u0259 evi o\u011flana saxlay\u0131rlar. Halbuki o\u011flan\u0131 \u0259sg\u0259r kimi yeti\u015fdirm\u0259lisiniz, onu h\u0259yata buraxmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki, get \u00f6z\u00fcn qazanmal\u0131san, bunu \u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259lis\u0259n. O o\u011flanlar\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nini g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz? Hans\u0131 ki, kas\u0131b ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131blar, lakin \u00f6z z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259, n\u0259l\u0259ris\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 edibl\u0259r. Art\u0131q yetkin insana \u00e7evrilibl\u0259r. O, yar\u0131-yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q, yaz\u0131q q\u0131zlar\u0131n n\u0259 t\u0259hsili olur, savads\u0131z ana b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr, olur savads\u0131z q\u0131z, sonra kimins\u0259 \u0259lin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Q\u0131z\u0131 savadl\u0131 yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Dem\u0259k olmaz ki, sabah evl\u0259r\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n. Bel\u0259 dey\u0259nd\u0259 beynin\u0259 yeridirs\u0259n ki, sabah s\u0259nin \u0259rin olacaq, h\u0259yat\u0131n \u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 u\u015faqlardan ibar\u0259t olacaq. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u00e7ox axsaql\u0131qlar olur. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z savadl\u0131 olsa, \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dura bils\u0259l\u0259r…  Fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin ki, ev qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131nd\u0131r, m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 \u00e7atmayacaq. \u00d6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz olur, s\u0131f\u0131rdan ba\u015flay\u0131r, bo\u015fanan kimi \u00f6vlad da b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259lidir, h\u0259m d\u0259 ev almal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131za savad v\u0259 ev verilm\u0259lidir. O\u011flan is\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259lidir, eybi yox, t\u0259hsilin\u0259 ail\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k olsun. Bu h\u0259yat \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. O\u011ful b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, onun kiminl\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 ata q\u0259rar verir. Ail\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259rini d\u0259 ata-anas\u0131 h\u0259ll edir. Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra o ki\u015fi arvad\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 ikinci ana hesab edir. El\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259hv olub gedirl\u0259r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n ata-analar bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki, bu, eqodur. H\u0259min o q\u0131z ki var, bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti g\u00f6r\u00fcr, sonra \u00f6vlad sahibi olur, o\u011flunu da anas\u0131ndan g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr. Fikirl\u0259\u015fmir ki, ba\u015f\u0131ma bunlar g\u0259lib, he\u00e7 olmasa o\u011flumu ki\u015fi kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcm, \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 insan par\u00e7as\u0131 kimi yox. \u0130ndi iki q\u0131z\u0131m var, fikirl\u0259\u015fir\u0259m ki, Allah, qism\u0259t et, ikisin\u0259 d\u0259 ayr\u0131-ayr\u0131 ev al\u0131m. Bilirsiniz niy\u0259? Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 o xasiyy\u0259t var da, nikahdan sonra qad\u0131n\u0131 ata-anas\u0131ndan ay\u0131r\u0131b evin\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259 arxay\u0131nl\u0131q yaran\u0131r. H\u0259tta o qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 kobudlu\u011fa, saymazl\u0131\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.  Beynind\u0259 d\u0259 o var ki, kimin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k? Ata-ana da q\u0131z\u0131na deyir ki, s\u0259n Allah bizim \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259. El-oba n\u0259 dey\u0259r? O d\u00f6vr\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sidir. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0131zlar\u0131n savad\u0131, evi, i\u015fl\u0259ri olsa, ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 onlarla o c\u00fcr davranmazlar. O ki\u015fi bil\u0259c\u0259k ki, onun ged\u0259si yeri var, o olmasa da, qad\u0131n \u00f6z aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 duracaq, balans kobud \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 pozulmayacaq. Eyni tempd\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, ikisi d\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015facaq”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“M\u0259n demi\u015f\u0259m ki, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, ki\u015fil\u0259ri yeti\u015fdir\u0259n biz qad\u0131nlar\u0131q. Qad\u0131nlar da etdikl\u0259ri s\u0259hvl\u0259ri n\u0259sild\u0259n n\u0259sil\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r”. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri jurnalist P\u0259rviz H\u00fcseynin t\u0259qdimat\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan “P\u0259rviz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259” verili\u015find\u0259 \u018fm\u0259kdar artist Lal\u0259 M\u0259mm\u0259dova deyib. O bildirib ki, o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u0259sg\u0259r kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259lidir:“\u00c7ox yax\u0131n tan\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n bir q\u0131z, bir o\u011flan \u00f6vlad\u0131 var. Q\u0131z oyanan kimi anas\u0131 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r ki, yerini y\u0131\u011fmam\u0131san, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16389,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16388"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16388\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16390,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16388\/revisions\/16390"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}