{"id":16154,"date":"2024-11-05T14:26:22","date_gmt":"2024-11-05T14:26:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16154"},"modified":"2024-11-05T14:26:24","modified_gmt":"2024-11-05T14:26:24","slug":"kim-qadina-dusm%C9%99ndirs%C9%99-dem%C9%99k-qadindan-it-kimi-qorxur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16154","title":{"rendered":"“Kim qad\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259ndirs\u0259, dem\u0259k, qad\u0131ndan it kimi qorxur”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u015eair \u015e\u0259hriyar Del Geraninin Kult.az<\/a>-a m\u00fcsahib\u0259si:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u015e\u0259hriyar, qad\u0131nlar m\u00f6vzusu n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259, tez-tez g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259t adamlar\u0131 onlar haqq\u0131nda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirir. Zaman-zaman s\u0259nin d\u0259 qad\u0131nlara t\u0259nqidi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin olub. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, indi m\u00f6vqeyin nec\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Qad\u0131n m\u00f6vzusu vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lirs\u0259, dem\u0259li, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 ciddi aktivlik yaran\u0131b. V\u0259 bu aktivlik ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131q do\u011furur. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu kimi say\u0131qlamalar c\u0259miyy\u0259tin ki\u015fi t\u0259r\u0259finin h\u0259min q\u0131c\u0131qdan do\u011fan reaksiyas\u0131d\u0131r. Daha d\u0259qiq ifad\u0259 ets\u0259k, qorxusudur. Fikir ver, kim qad\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n kimi bax\u0131rsa, h\u0259min k\u0259s qad\u0131ndan it kimi qorxur. S\u00f6hb\u0259t fiziki qorxudan getmir. Mahiyy\u0259tc\u0259 qad\u0131ndan qorxur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– B\u0259s nec\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n, qad\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n qorxmal\u0131d\u0131rm\u0131? Patriarxal qaydalarda ki\u015finin s\u00f6z\u00fc daha \u00e7ox ke\u00e7ir. \u0130ndi sanki bu d\u0259y\u0259r da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, b\u0259rab\u0259rlik ist\u0259nilir. M\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi b\u0259rab\u0259rliyi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– He\u00e7 k\u0259s he\u00e7 k\u0259sd\u0259n qorxmamal\u0131d\u0131r. N\u0259 ki\u015fi qad\u0131ndan, n\u0259 qad\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n, n\u0259 ki\u015fi ki\u015fid\u0259n, n\u0259 qad\u0131n qad\u0131ndan. C\u0259sar\u0259t insan\u0131n istedad\u0131d\u0131r. C\u0259sar\u0259tli ya\u015famaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. H\u00f6rm\u0259t, ehtiram da m\u0259hz bu zaman yaran\u0131r. Qorxu olan yerd\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6l\u0259ziyir. M\u0259n mahiyy\u0259tc\u0259 matriarxat t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131yam. \u0130st\u0259yir\u0259m b\u00fct\u00fcn ciddi postlarda qad\u0131nlar dayans\u0131n, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada. Onsuz da proses ora gedir. Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f etibaril\u0259 fiziki g\u00fcc \u00e7oxdur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn a\u011f\u0131r i\u015fl\u0259ri ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259, a\u011f\u0131l i\u015fl\u0259rini qad\u0131nlara tap\u015f\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131q. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu c\u00fcml\u0259ni oxuyub q\u0131m\u0131\u015fan h\u0259mv\u0259t\u0259nl\u0259r \u00e7ox olacaq. Amma bir d\u0259qiq\u0259lik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb d\u00fcnyan\u0131n r\u0259nginin nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259yini t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ets\u0259l\u0259r, z\u00f6vql\u00fc adamlar raz\u0131la\u015farlar. Qad\u0131na ehtiram z\u00f6vql\u00fc adamlar\u0131n i\u015fidir. Buyur, bu da t\u0259z\u0259 tezis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Amma m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, s\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ma\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcrm\u0259yinin \u0259leyhin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131san, yaxud da futbol m\u00f6vzusundan ba\u015flar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 demis\u0259n…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ma\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcrm\u0259k a\u011f\u0131r v\u0259 riskli i\u015fdir. Dedim ax\u0131, a\u011f\u0131r i\u015fl\u0259ri ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 tap\u015f\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Qad\u0131n sad\u0259c\u0259, ma\u015f\u0131n\u0131 z\u00f6vq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u00fcrm\u0259lidir. \u0130ndiki d\u00f6vrd\u0259, m\u0259xsus\u0259n, Bak\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rinin haz\u0131rk\u0131 xaotik, iflic v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 qad\u0131n niy\u0259 ma\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcrm\u0259k \u0259zab\u0131na qatla\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r? Ma\u015f\u0131n s\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00f6z\u00fc ayr\u0131ca bir i\u015fdir. El\u0259 qad\u0131nlar var, h\u0259m avtomobil idar\u0259 edirl\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, h\u0259kimdir. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr et, bu iki i\u015fi birlikd\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259k g\u00f6r adamdan n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r enerji apar\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259k, qad\u0131n olmaq da \u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 ba\u015fqa bir i\u015fdir. H\u0259r g\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259l, bax\u0131ml\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bilirs\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir qad\u0131nlar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 Akif \u0130slamzad\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar haqq\u0131nda \u201cQad\u0131n elm \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259z, Allah ona elm verm\u0259yib\u201d fikri il\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259ldi. Onu q\u0131nayan, t\u0259hqir ed\u0259n qad\u0131n \u00e7oxdur. Bu fikrin elmi \u0259sas\u0131n\u0131n da oldu\u011funu dey\u0259nl\u0259r var. Hans\u0131 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin qad\u0131nlara nisb\u0259td\u0259 daha d\u0259rin, daha t\u0259hsilli, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Bu \u00e7ox absurd v\u0259 g\u00fcl\u00fcnc iddiad\u0131r. Akif m\u00fc\u0259llim, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, empirizmd\u0259n tamam uzaqd\u0131r. Bel\u0259 g\u00fcl\u00fcnc iddialara ba\u015f qo\u015fmaq laz\u0131m deyil. Vaxt israf\u0131d\u0131r. Akif m\u00fc\u0259llimdir d\u0259. Cavan o\u011flansan, \u0259rinm\u0259, hava da iki g\u00fcnd\u00fcr s\u0259rindir, h\u0259l\u0259 s\u0259n get Akif m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259n g\u00fcnl\u0259rini qaytar, g\u00f6r g\u0259l\u0259n g\u00fcnl\u0259rini qurban ver\u0259c\u0259k, ya yox? \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n deyim ki, yox, q\u0259tiyy\u0259n. R\u0259hm\u0259tlik R\u0259fiq Z\u0259ka X\u0259ndan qurban verdi. B\u0259li. Amma Akif m\u00fc\u0259llim verm\u0259z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Qad\u0131nlar haqq\u0131nda aqressiv fikirl\u0259r dey\u0259n, h\u0259r f\u00fcrs\u0259td\u0259 ki\u015finin daha \u00fcst\u00fcn, qad\u0131n\u0131nsa yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q, yar\u0131tmaz varl\u0131q oldu\u011funu s\u00fcbut etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131nda gizli homoseksual meyill\u0259r oldu\u011funu dey\u0259nl\u0259r var. Raz\u0131sanm\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Bu haqda bilgim yoxdur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 cavab ver\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u015e\u0259hriyar, fikirl\u0259rin feminizmi d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir. Az\u0259rbaycandak\u0131 feminist xan\u0131mlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rin\u0259, ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 qat\u0131l\u0131rsanm\u0131? Yoxsa, bunlar f\u0259rdi, \u015fairan\u0259, poetik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rindir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Az\u0259rbaycanda feminizmin mahiyy\u0259tini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259k \u00e7ox az adam var. Hay-k\u00fcy v\u0259 qara-q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131q feminizmi g\u00f6zd\u0259n sal\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259, feminizm \u00e7ox m\u00fcbar\u0259k v\u0259 m\u00fcbahd\u0131r. Bizd\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 \u201c\u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131n g\u0259nc\u201d feminizmi \u201cb\u0259d\u0259n m\u0259nimdir, kim\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259m ver\u0259r\u0259m\u201d kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. Amma feminizm \u201cz\u0259ka m\u0259nimdir, \u00f6m\u00fcr m\u0259nimdir, imkan ver, z\u0259kam\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fc faydal\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131m, z\u0259kam\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fc kim\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259m, ver\u0259r\u0259m\u201ddir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eairan\u0259, poetik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 el\u0259 deyirs\u0259n, guya s\u0259feh bir \u015feydir. D\u00fcnya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259, f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 tarixi poetik fikr\u0259 borcludur, \u015fairan\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 ax\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 in\u015fa olunub. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, poetik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k m\u0259nim h\u0259yat t\u0259rzimdir. V\u0259 \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, feminist\u0259m. Z\u00f6vql\u00fc ki\u015fil\u0259r feminist olur. D\u00fcnyan\u0131 z\u00f6vql\u0259ndirm\u0259k, m\u0259naland\u0131rmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259s feminist olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu da t\u0259bii, z\u00f6vq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Son olaraq qad\u0131nlar haqq\u0131nda \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l \u015feirini dey\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259nmi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– H\u0259rd\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u0259 olur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allaha deyir\u0259m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

g\u00fcn\u0259\u015f\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00e7ox sa\u011f ol;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ya\u011f\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

k\u00fcl\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

v\u0259 sair\u0259…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u0259rd\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u0259 olur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allaha deyir\u0259m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

o qad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00e7ox sa\u011f ol;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

yeri\u015fin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

v\u0259 sair\u0259…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 olur ki,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

birc\u0259 g\u00fcn\u0259\u015fin xatirin\u0259 sabaha \u00e7\u0131xmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259n,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

birc\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n xatirin\u0259 ba\u015fqa b\u00fct\u00fcn sabahlara…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 olur ki,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmur<\/p>\n\n\n\n

bax,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

bel\u0259\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u015eair \u015e\u0259hriyar Del Geraninin Kult.az-a m\u00fcsahib\u0259si: – \u015e\u0259hriyar, qad\u0131nlar m\u00f6vzusu n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259, tez-tez g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259t adamlar\u0131 onlar haqq\u0131nda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirir. Zaman-zaman s\u0259nin d\u0259 qad\u0131nlara t\u0259nqidi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin olub. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, indi m\u00f6vqeyin nec\u0259dir? – Qad\u0131n m\u00f6vzusu vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lirs\u0259, dem\u0259li, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 ciddi aktivlik yaran\u0131b. V\u0259 bu aktivlik ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131q do\u011furur. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu kimi say\u0131qlamalar …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16155,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16154"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16156,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16154\/revisions\/16156"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}