{"id":16014,"date":"2024-10-30T12:58:11","date_gmt":"2024-10-30T12:58:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16014"},"modified":"2024-10-30T13:33:12","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:33:12","slug":"m%C9%99kt%C9%99bd%C9%99n-ev%C9%99-ged%C9%99nd%C9%99-arxamca-oglanlar-qisqirirdilar-ilham%C9%99-qasimova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=16014","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n ev\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 10-15 o\u011flan arxamca q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131&#8221; &#8211; \u0130lham\u0259 Qas\u0131mova"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>\u201cM\u0259n k\u0259nd m\u0259kt\u0259bind\u0259 oxumu\u015fam v\u0259 sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131m t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u0259\u201d (bu, bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ba\u015fqalar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259qib olunmas\u0131 \u2013 red.) m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259ni h\u0259m boyuma, h\u0259m geyimim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 davaml\u0131 \u201cbullinq\u201d edibl\u0259r. Baxmayaraq ki, m\u0259n h\u0259r zaman n\u00fcmun\u0259vi \u015fagird olmu\u015fam, \u015f\u0259klim \u201c\u015f\u0259r\u0259f l\u00f6vh\u0259si\u201dd\u0259 olub. M\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u201d olunmu\u015f u\u015faq olmu\u015fam. Buna is\u0259 he\u00e7 kim fikir verm\u0259yib. Sad\u0259c\u0259 biz g\u00fccl\u00fc olmu\u015fuq\u201d.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni \u0130lham\u0259 Qas\u0131mova qonaq oldu\u011fu \u201cX\u0259b\u0259rin var?\u201d maqazin verili\u015find\u0259 deyib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>S\u0259n\u0259t\u00e7i m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rind\u0259 h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u201d\u0259 m\u0259ruz qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirib:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cM\u0259n evd\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n ev\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 arxamca o\u011flanlar q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131lar. M\u0259n o m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ba\u015fqa k\u0259ndd\u0259n g\u0259lirdim. M\u0259nd\u0259n xo\u015flar\u0131 g\u0259lmirdi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 sata\u015f\u0131rd\u0131lar. Bir insan h\u0259d\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259nin kas\u0131b olub-olmama\u011f\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259xlisi olmur. Sinifd\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00e7ox pis geyin\u0259n u\u015faqlar vard\u0131, amma onlar\u0131 \u201cbullinq\u201d etmirdil\u0259r. Sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259n o m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 \u201cg\u0259lm\u0259\u201d oldu\u011fuma g\u00f6r\u0259 ba\u015fqa \u015fagirdl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259qib olunurdum. M\u0259n 4-c\u00fc sinf\u0259 ba\u015fqa m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n g\u0259lmi\u015fdim. Art\u0131q adi bir hala \u00e7evrilmi\u015fdi. M\u0259n buna fikir vermirdim. Sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fc idim. Amma indiki u\u015faqlar ba\u015fqad\u0131rlar, onlar bu c\u00fcr t\u0259qibl\u0259r\u0259 d\u00f6zm\u00fcrl\u0259r. Biri var ki, o\u011flan olard\u0131m d\u0259rd yar\u0131, q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011fuma g\u00f6r\u0259 daha \u00e7\u0259tin idi. 10-15 u\u015faq arxamca q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131lar. Ad\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kib, la\u011fa qoyub, g\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fcl\u0259r. Fikrinizc\u0259, bel\u0259 bir hadis\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259n q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nec\u0259 hiss ed\u0259 bil\u0259r? \u00c7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck travma ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fam\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Qas\u0131mova travma ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rini xat\u0131rlamaq ist\u0259m\u0259diyini vur\u011fulay\u0131b:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u0130ndi m\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u201d hadis\u0259l\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 deyir\u0259m ki, bu \u015feyl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259ni \u201cbullinq\u201d ed\u0259n h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131 ill\u0259r ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. M\u0259ni h\u0259d\u0259f alan daha \u00e7ox o\u011flanlar idi. He\u00e7 birini g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, g\u00f6rm\u0259k d\u0259 ist\u0259mir\u0259m. U\u015faq m\u0259kt\u0259bi oxuyub, bitir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra onda \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l xatir\u0259l\u0259r qal\u0131r. M\u0259n 3-c\u00fc sinf\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r oxudu\u011fum m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xt idim. Son h\u0259min m\u0259kt\u0259b uzaq oldu\u011fundan yax\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 getdim. O m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131ma g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b ill\u0259rini xat\u0131rlamaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m. O q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli idi m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u2026 M\u0259ni 4-c\u00fc sinifd\u0259n 9-cu sinf\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 u\u015faqlar t\u0259qib edibl\u0259r. 15 ya\u015f\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r \u201cbullinq\u201d\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015fam. Valideynl\u0259rim m\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259r zaman deyirdil\u0259r ki, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 ol v\u0259 onlara fikir verm\u0259. Fikrim d\u0259 el\u0259 idi ki, yaln\u0131z d\u0259rs oxuyurdum v\u0259 bu c\u00fcr \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259timi ay\u0131rm\u0131rd\u0131m. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fc proqramla\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m ki, bu kimi m\u0259qamlar\u0131 bo\u015f buraxmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00d6n\u0259mli \u015fey m\u0259nim m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n sonrak\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131m idi\u201d. (olay)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cM\u0259n k\u0259nd m\u0259kt\u0259bind\u0259 oxumu\u015fam v\u0259 sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131m t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u0259\u201d (bu, bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ba\u015fqalar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259qib olunmas\u0131 \u2013 red.) m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259ni h\u0259m boyuma, h\u0259m geyimim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 davaml\u0131 \u201cbullinq\u201d edibl\u0259r. Baxmayaraq ki, m\u0259n h\u0259r zaman n\u00fcmun\u0259vi \u015fagird olmu\u015fam, \u015f\u0259klim \u201c\u015f\u0259r\u0259f l\u00f6vh\u0259si\u201dd\u0259 olub. M\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u201d olunmu\u015f u\u015faq olmu\u015fam. Buna is\u0259 he\u00e7 kim fikir verm\u0259yib. Sad\u0259c\u0259 biz g\u00fccl\u00fc &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16015,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16014"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16014\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16018,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16014\/revisions\/16018"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}