{"id":15745,"date":"2024-10-14T07:27:19","date_gmt":"2024-10-14T07:27:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=15745"},"modified":"2024-10-14T07:27:21","modified_gmt":"2024-10-14T07:27:21","slug":"er-evin%C9%99-ism%C9%99t-abir-h%C9%99ya-apara-bilm%C9%99k-on%C9%99mlidir-bahali-cehiz-yox","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=15745","title":{"rendered":"“\u018fr evin\u0259 ism\u0259t, ab\u0131r-h\u0259ya apara bilm\u0259k \u00f6n\u0259mlidir, bahal\u0131 cehiz yox”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n bir \u00e7ox b\u00f6lg\u0259sinin ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n o\u011flan\u0131n evini q\u0131z\u0131n cehizl\u0259ri doldurmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ke\u015fmi\u015fd\u0259 bu cehiz bir bo\u011f\u00e7a v\u0259 ya ki\u00e7ik sand\u0131qdan ibar\u0259t idis\u0259, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcrd\u0259n ail\u0259ni borca salacaq q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox v\u0259 bahal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0259s cehiz ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259sini d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sosioloq Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 Redaktor.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda fikirl\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“B\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259t var oldu\u011fundan b\u0259ri analar-atalar q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr\u0259nd\u0259 ona m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n \u0259\u015fyalar ver\u0259rmi\u015f. Tam m\u0259nas\u0131 il\u0259 cehiz say\u0131lmazm\u0131\u015f, amma simvolik m\u0259na k\u0259sb ed\u0259rmi\u015f. O zamanlar\u0131n \u0259n m\u0259h\u015fur cehiz \u0259\u015fyalar\u0131 is\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259nmi\u015f b\u0259z\u0259k \u0259\u015fyalar\u0131, \u0259ll\u0259 nax\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f yor\u011fan-d\u00f6\u015f\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fczl\u0259r, s\u00fcfr\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 sair idi. Zaman ir\u0259lil\u0259dikc\u0259 cehizin say\u0131 v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259ri d\u0259 art\u0131b. Valideynl\u0259r m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r daha \u00e7ox \u0259\u015fya cehiz verib, h\u0259tta daha d\u0259y\u0259rli cehiz verm\u0259k bar\u0259d\u0259 bir n\u00f6v yar\u0131\u015fa giribl\u0259r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130ll\u0259r \u00f6td\u00fck\u00e7\u0259 cehiz\u0259 qab-qacaq, bahal\u0131 par\u00e7alar, uzaq \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259n g\u0259tirilmi\u015f ip\u0259k, z\u0259r-xara paltarlar da \u0259lav\u0259 edilm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. Amma bunlar\u0131 maddi imkan\u0131 daha yax\u015f\u0131 olan ail\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bilirdi. El\u0259 o zamandan da cehiz ad\u0259tind\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. Kas\u0131b ail\u0259l\u0259rinin cehizi ayr\u0131, varl\u0131lar\u0131n cehiz anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 is\u0259 ayr\u0131 oldu. El\u0259 indiki kimi”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sosioloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda cehiz ad\u0259ti olduqca g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259kli \u0259n\u0259n\u0259dir, bir \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259 ki, \u201ca\u011f etm\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Cehiz ail\u0259l\u0259rin mal-m\u00fclk m\u00fcsabiq\u0259si deyil, milli ad\u0259tdir. Amma cehizsiz ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131 he\u00e7 bir halda d\u0259rd etm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. Bizim cehizsiz ail\u0259 quran o q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz var ki, \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259kl\u0259ri il\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 sahib olublar. \u00d6n\u0259mli olan \u0259r evin\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi cehiz \u2013 ism\u0259t, ab\u0131r-h\u0259ya apara bilm\u0259kdir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir yataq \u00f6rt\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 700 manat, bir \u00e7il\u00e7\u0131ra\u011fa 1000, bir meyv\u0259 qab\u0131na 300, he\u00e7 vaxt q\u0131y\u0131b yem\u0259k yem\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi qab d\u0259stin\u0259 5000 manat pul verib misli g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259mi\u015f cehiz tutanlar sonra o qablar\u0131 istifad\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131ym\u0131rlar. \u00c7ox \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b m\u0259tbuata, cehiz \u00fcst\u0259 gah q\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc as\u0131r, gah ata borcdan bezib intihara \u0259l at\u0131r. Niy\u0259 siz u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131za i\u00e7ind\u0259 adi yem\u0259k yey\u0259c\u0259yi qab d\u0259stini 9 min\u0259 almal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Niy\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 q\u0131y\u0131b i\u00e7ind\u0259 su i\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi 12 st\u0259kana 2 min pul verirsiniz? \u0130ld\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 – yeni ild\u0259 i\u00e7in\u0259 meyv\u0259 qoyub “selfi” ed\u0259c\u0259yi meyv\u0259 qab\u0131na niy\u0259 700 manat verirsiniz?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 qeyd etdi ki, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, b\u0259zi q\u0131zlar bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox israr\u00e7\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Onlar valideynini h\u0259d\u0259l\u0259yir, \u201calmasan\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259m\u201d dey\u0259 qorxudurlar. O q\u0131zlar beyinl\u0259rin\u0259 niy\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 yarayacaq informasiyalar yeritmir, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc inki\u015faf etdirmir, adi \u015f\u00fc\u015f\u0259d\u0259n haz\u0131rlan\u0131b axmaqlara od qiym\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0131r\u0131nan qaba g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259sini borca sal\u0131r?”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n bir \u00e7ox b\u00f6lg\u0259sinin ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n o\u011flan\u0131n evini q\u0131z\u0131n cehizl\u0259ri doldurmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ke\u015fmi\u015fd\u0259 bu cehiz bir bo\u011f\u00e7a v\u0259 ya ki\u00e7ik sand\u0131qdan ibar\u0259t idis\u0259, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcrd\u0259n ail\u0259ni borca salacaq q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox v\u0259 bahal\u0131d\u0131r.  B\u0259s cehiz ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259sini d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sosioloq Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 Redaktor.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda fikirl\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc: “B\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259t var oldu\u011fundan b\u0259ri analar-atalar q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr\u0259nd\u0259 ona m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n \u0259\u015fyalar …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15746,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15745","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15745","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15745"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15745\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15747,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15745\/revisions\/15747"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15746"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15745"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15745"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15745"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}