{"id":15098,"date":"2024-09-17T13:23:39","date_gmt":"2024-09-17T13:23:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=15098"},"modified":"2024-09-17T13:23:41","modified_gmt":"2024-09-17T13:23:41","slug":"bu-qadinlar-daha-cox-evli-kisil%C9%99rl%C9%99-munasib%C9%99ti-xoslayirlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=15098","title":{"rendered":"Bu qad\u0131nlar daha \u00e7ox evli ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti xo\u015flay\u0131rlar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Son zamanlar narsizm getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. Sosial mediada yaz\u0131lanlar v\u0259 r\u0259q\u0259msal al\u0259md\u0259ki \u00fcmumi tendensiya il\u0259 d\u0259 bu q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0259s narsist birini nec\u0259 tan\u0131maq olar? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Sfera.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan seksoloq-psixoloq L\u0259man Mustafayeva bildirib ki, narsisizm q\u0259dim yunan mifologiyas\u0131nda \u00f6z \u0259ksin\u0259 a\u015fiq olan bir personajd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPsixologiyada narsisizm insan\u0131n h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam, h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan daimi diqq\u0259t v\u0259 heyranl\u0131q g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259si dem\u0259kdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc unikal bir f\u0259rd kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259si v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan \u00fcst\u00fcn hesab etm\u0259si psixoloji x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tidir ki, bu da h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 do\u011fru deyil. \u018fslind\u0259, ox\u015far x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r bir \u00e7ox insan\u0131n xarakterind\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur. Sa\u011flam bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259tp\u0259r\u0259stlik v\u0259 m\u0259mnunluq arzusu il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. Ancaq u\u015faql\u0131qda qoyulmu\u015f m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir ssenariy\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n, bu c\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015f tez-tez dig\u0259r diaqnozlarla, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, bipolyar poz\u011funluq v\u0259 depressiya il\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t olunan bir patologiyaya \u00e7evril\u0259 bil\u0259r. M\u0259\u015fhur inanc\u0131n \u0259ksin\u0259 olaraq, narsisistik \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t poz\u011funlu\u011fu olan insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u00e7ox sevmirl\u0259r. \u018fksin\u0259, onlar \u00f6z heysiyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259ki bo\u015fluqlar\u0131 ba\u011flama\u011fa imkan ver\u0259n m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m proyeksiyalar\u0131na heyran olurlar. Bu m\u00fcdafi\u0259 narsistl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259rin hissl\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa imkan verir. Bu poz\u011funlu\u011fu olan bir insan minimal t\u0259nqid\u0259 d\u00f6z\u0259 bilm\u0259z, \u015f\u0259rhl\u0259ri \u015f\u0259xsi t\u0259hqir kimi q\u0259bul edir v\u0259 kims\u0259 ona heyran olmaqdan imtina ed\u0259rs\u0259, q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 qadirdir. NPI anketind\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k siz v\u0259 ya partnyorunuz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narsisistik x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 xarakterik oldu\u011funu yoxlaya bil\u0259rsiniz\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psixoloq qeyd edib ki, narsisistik \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t poz\u011funlu\u011funun doqquz \u0259lam\u0259ti var. \u201c\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc vacib hiss edir. O, tez-tez nailiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini v\u0259 istedadlar\u0131n\u0131 \u015fi\u015firdir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n ki\u00e7ik d\u0259 olsa onun h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 heyran olmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. Sonsuz u\u011fur, g\u00fcc, g\u00f6z\u0259llik v\u0259 ya ideal sevgi fantaziyalar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurlar. Narsist h\u0259r yeni t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fa h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n sevgisi oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 ya onun fantaziyalar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259sini g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 bir \u0259laq\u0259nin ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c\u0131 sehirli, lakin q\u0131sa bir d\u00f6vrd\u00fcr. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131 kimi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259rl\u0259rinin az oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r. V\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259traf m\u00fchit uy\u011fun olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Narsist “x\u00fcsusi” insanlar\u0131 dost v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f kimi se\u00e7ir, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, y\u00fcks\u0259k sosial statusu v\u0259 ya model g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olanlar. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, o \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc onlar\u0131n vasit\u0259sil\u0259 \u0259ks etdirir, \u00e7\u00fcnki onun probleml\u0259ri unikald\u0131r v\u0259 yaln\u0131z x\u00fcsusi insanlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259 bil\u0259r. Narsistl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rini b\u00f6y\u00fck brendl\u0259rl\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259yi sevirl\u0259r v\u0259 bu h\u0259m onun i\u015f layih\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 geyim se\u00e7imin\u0259 aid edil\u0259 bil\u0259r. Zibil qab\u0131n\u0131 atma\u011fa \u00e7\u0131xsa v\u0259 ya \u015fam yem\u0259yi haz\u0131rlasa bel\u0259, daima diqq\u0259t v\u0259 heyranl\u0131q t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Ba\u015fqa insanlardan g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri \u00e7ox y\u00fcks\u0259k olur. Yax\u0131n insanlar ilk z\u0259ngd\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 borcludurlar. \u00d6z m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u015fqa insanlardan istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu, s\u00f6zs\u00fczd\u00fcr. Narsist xidm\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 s\u0259mimi t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fmir v\u0259 bunu yaln\u0131z q\u0259bul edilmi\u015f etik norma \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 edir. \u00c7ox vaxt ba\u015fqalar\u0131na pax\u0131ll\u0131q edir v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n ona pax\u0131ll\u0131q etdiyin\u0259 inan\u0131r. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fc davran\u0131r. Bel\u0259 bir insan tamamil\u0259 s\u0259mimi olaraq ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan daha yax\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259sdiql\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259la s\u0259b\u0259bdir. Narsisistik bir qad\u0131n, adi bir \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inaml\u0131 qad\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli olaraq, tez-tez diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259, c\u0259lbediciliyini t\u0259sdiq etm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 u\u011fur qazanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaqd\u0131r. Narsit qad\u0131nlar daima diqq\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131na v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q t\u0259l\u0259bkard\u0131rlar. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m terapiya il\u0259 idar\u0259 oluna v\u0259 ya azald\u0131la bil\u0259r. Ancaq yen\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r ki, narsisizmd\u0259n tamamil\u0259 qurtulmaq son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259 ya qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcn ola bil\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psixoloq \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yev is\u0259 diqq\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131b ki, narsist insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u00e7ox sevir v\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nlidirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNarsist insanlar daima \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u00f6n planda tutmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. H\u0259r \u015fey onlar\u0131n ist\u0259diyi kimi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Narsist insanlar\u0131n ist\u0259diyini etm\u0259dikd\u0259, onlar\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259ni olacaqsan. Onlar he\u00e7 vaxt s\u0259hvl\u0259rini q\u0259bul etmir v\u0259 g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131 boyunlar\u0131na alm\u0131rlar. H\u0259r zaman s\u0259hvi qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 axtar\u0131rlar. Narsist insanlar bizi g\u00fcv\u0259nd\u0259 hiss etdirmir. Biz onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc narahat hiss edir v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k qorxusu il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. Narsitl\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. Bunu ed\u0259rk\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259min \u00fczr onlar\u0131n xeyrin\u0259 olacaqsa, bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131rlar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, yolda\u015f\u0131 h\u0259min narsist insan\u0131 t\u0259rk etm\u0259k ist\u0259dikd\u0259 onu yan\u0131nda saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. G\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, h\u0259yatlar\u0131nda yolda\u015f\u0131ndan ba\u015fqa ona \u00e7ox d\u0259y\u0259r ver\u0259n insan yoxdur. Bu zaman onu itirm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ke\u00e7ici olaraq \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. Ondan sonra yenid\u0259n \u00f6z ampulalar\u0131nda davam edirl\u0259r. Narsist partnyoru olan insanlar n\u0259 vaxtsa onu anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259lidir. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlarda empatiya hissi yoxdur. Narsist insanlara g\u00f6r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131dak\u0131 insan\u0131n duy\u011fular\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259mli deyil\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psixoloq vur\u011fulay\u0131b ki, narsist qad\u0131nlar \u00f6z \u0259traf\u0131nda olan insanlarla maraqlanmaz v\u0259 onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 bir sual verm\u0259zl\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBu qad\u0131nlar tez-tez fikirl\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 yox cavab\u0131n\u0131 sevmirl\u0259r. Narsist qad\u0131nlara yox dem\u0259k onu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n etm\u0259y\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259rdir. Yaln\u0131z \u00f6z se\u00e7dikl\u0259ri insanlarla fl\u00f6rt edirl\u0259r. Lakin seksuall\u0131q bax\u0131m\u0131ndan z\u0259if olurlar. Onlar he\u00e7 vaxt t\u0259k qalma\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flam\u0131rlar. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir ne\u00e7\u0259 insanla eyni zamanda m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 ola bilirl\u0259r. H\u0259m\u00e7inin evli ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olma\u011fa meyilli olurlar. Bu sendroma 75 faiz ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259, 25 faiz is\u0259 qad\u0131nlarda rast g\u0259linir. Narsist sevgili il\u0259 bir yerd\u0259 olmaq  “c\u0259llad\u0131na a\u015fiq olmaq” ifad\u0259si il\u0259 eyni m\u0259naya g\u0259lir. Narsist sevgili v\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 h\u0259r m\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 z\u0259if n\u00f6qt\u0259sind\u0259n vurur v\u0259 bir s\u0131ra ifad\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 onun \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tini al\u00e7ald\u0131r. Onunla mehriban oldu\u011fu zamanda dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn sirrl\u0259rini, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 vurur. Partnyorunun m\u0259n\u0259vi \u0259zab \u00e7\u0259km\u0259sind\u0259n z\u00f6vq al\u0131r. Onlar sizi \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259r\u0259k v\u0259 z\u0259if v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 salaraq q\u00fcvv\u0259tl\u0259nirl\u0259r. Bu insanlar\u0131 he\u00e7 bir halda h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131xara bilm\u0259s\u0259niz d\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rsizl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. Narsistl\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n qaya t\u0259qlidi etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. N\u0259 des\u0259 d\u0259 cavab vermirs\u0259n. Onun dedikl\u0259rin\u0259 saymazyana yana\u015f\u0131rsan. Ona hirsl\u0259ndiyinizi he\u00e7 vaxt bildirm\u0259yin. \u018fs\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdiyinizi g\u00f6rs\u0259 daha da m\u00fcbahis\u0259ni b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259c\u0259k\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son zamanlar narsizm getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. Sosial mediada yaz\u0131lanlar v\u0259 r\u0259q\u0259msal al\u0259md\u0259ki \u00fcmumi tendensiya il\u0259 d\u0259 bu q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. B\u0259s narsist birini nec\u0259 tan\u0131maq olar? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Sfera.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan seksoloq-psixoloq L\u0259man Mustafayeva bildirib ki, narsisizm q\u0259dim yunan mifologiyas\u0131nda \u00f6z \u0259ksin\u0259 a\u015fiq olan bir personajd\u0131r. \u201cPsixologiyada narsisizm insan\u0131n h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam, h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15099,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15098"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15098\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15100,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15098\/revisions\/15100"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}