{"id":11875,"date":"2024-05-15T10:07:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-15T10:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=11875"},"modified":"2024-05-15T22:18:51","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T22:18:51","slug":"qadinlar-kisil%C9%99ri-ozun%C9%99-tabe-etdikd%C9%99n-sonra-bunu-etm%C9%99y%C9%99-calisirlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=11875","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 tabe etdikd\u0259n sonra bunu etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>\u201cAil\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259tin \u00e7oxald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 daha d\u0259qiq dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik. H\u0259tta dey\u0259rdim ki, bu hal 70-80 faiz art\u0131b. Ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259min m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. \u018fn \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri m\u0259rc oyunlar\u0131nda uduzan b\u0259yl\u0259rdir. Onlar\u0131 iqromaniya idar\u0259 edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n onlar \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 idar\u0259\u00e7iliyi itirirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 aqressiya ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r v\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t yaran\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, h\u0259r bir ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259ri olur. H\u0259min problem \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc 2-3 d\u0259f\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7ox b\u00fcruz\u0259 verirs\u0259, bu ail\u0259 d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalanlar siyah\u0131s\u0131na \u0259lav\u0259 edilib, problemli olaraq qeyd olunmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yuxar\u0131dak\u0131 fikirl\u0259ri sayt\u0131m\u0131za a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda psixoloq Ayt\u0259n \u018fl\u0259kb\u0259rova qeyd edib. Psixoloq ail\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259tin g\u00fcn ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 \u00e7oxalmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da \u015f\u0259rh ed\u0259r\u0259k, bildirib ki, ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n dediyi fikirl\u0259r bir-birinin bo\u011faz\u0131ndan ke\u00e7mir:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAil\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259tin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri \u00f6vladlar\u0131n yeniyetm\u0259 vaxt\u0131ndak\u0131 geyim v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f t\u0259rzidir. Bu zaman ata anan\u0131 g\u00fcnahkar \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r, ya da \u0259ksin\u0259, ana t\u0259qsiri atada g\u00f6r\u00fcr. M\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r var ki, ata v\u0259 anan\u0131n s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259ri uy\u011funla\u015fm\u0131r. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t o yer\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7at\u0131r ki, u\u015faqlar valideyni manipulyasiya ed\u0259r\u0259k, intiharla qorxutma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar ilk olaraq, narkomaniya, iqromaniya, ikinci sosial v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259ri, h\u0259m\u00e7inin valideynl\u0259rin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259m\u0259si s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rlar. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ail\u0259 qurark\u0259n, ilk tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 o\u011flan\u0131n diqq\u0259tini hans\u0131 c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n c\u0259lb etdiyini \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259lidir. \u00c7\u00fcnki sonra evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131nda qad\u0131n ki\u015fini h\u0259min s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n q\u0131sqanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 bel\u0259likl\u0259, s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r yaran\u0131r. M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259qamlara diqq\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Q\u0131zlar daha \u00e7ox m\u0259ntiqi davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. M\u0259ntiql\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7ox u\u011furlu olur. Ancaq g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc v\u0259 tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q \u00fcsullar\u0131 il\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkil edil\u0259n evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259 bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra m\u00fcxt\u0259lif probleml\u0259r ba\u015f qald\u0131r\u0131r\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A.\u018fl\u0259kb\u0259rova ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 meylli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n onlar\u0131 bu yola vadar etdiyini d\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cKi\u015fil\u0259r ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 meylli olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji t\u0259zyiqi n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nl\u0259ri \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru add\u0131mlar atma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Biz bunu rahatl\u0131qla sez\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Bir qad\u0131n o q\u0259d\u0259r deying\u0259n olur ki, h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 \u00fcsyan edir v\u0259 sonunda ki\u015fi d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 \u0259l at\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, bu b\u0259ra\u0259t qazand\u0131r\u0131lacaq bir s\u0259b\u0259b deyil. Bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin yaranmamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bir-birini qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 olaraq tan\u0131mal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t formas\u0131na diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r is\u0259 ail\u0259 quraca\u011f\u0131 q\u0131zlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini dinl\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ilkin i\u015fl\u0259tdiyi fikirl\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 naz-q\u0259mz\u0259 kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 tabe etdikd\u0259n sonra ill\u0259r ke\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259vv\u0259lki s\u00f6zl\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAil\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259tin \u00e7oxald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 daha d\u0259qiq dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik. H\u0259tta dey\u0259rdim ki, bu hal 70-80 faiz art\u0131b. Ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259min m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. \u018fn \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri m\u0259rc oyunlar\u0131nda uduzan b\u0259yl\u0259rdir. Onlar\u0131 iqromaniya idar\u0259 edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n onlar \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 idar\u0259\u00e7iliyi itirirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 aqressiya ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r v\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t yaran\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, h\u0259r &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11876,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11875","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin","category-olke"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11875","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11875"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11875\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11877,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11875\/revisions\/11877"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}