H\u0259kim-Kosmetoloq \u00dclviyy\u0259 M\u0259mm\u0259dovan\u0131n m\u00fcsahib\u0259si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Salam, \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, xo\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fck!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u018fleyk\u00fcm\u0259 salam, xo\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fck, xo\u015f g\u0259lmisiniz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Xo\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259k! Sizc\u0259 qad\u0131n kimdir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Qad\u0131n, Allah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259xluqdur, insand\u0131r, birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 B\u0259s \u0259sl qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u018fsl qad\u0131n (g\u00fcl\u00fcr), q\u0259rib\u0259 suald\u0131r, \u0259sl qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Y\u0259ni ideal qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ideal insan yoxdur, ideal qad\u0131n x\u0259yallar\u0131m\u0131zda ya\u015fad\u0131r\u0131q, b\u0259li, \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l olmal\u0131d\u0131r, \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, bacar\u0131ql\u0131, h\u0259r bir \u00e7\u0259tinliyin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259lidir. \u0130deal qad\u0131n\u0131 biz bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Sizc\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir v\u0259 yaxud bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi ki\u015fil\u0259rdi, yoxsa qad\u0131nlar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 S\u0259b\u0259bini deyim. Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qd\u0131r. Y\u0259ni bir-birini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u018fsas problem budur. Bir-birinin, bel\u0259 dey\u0259k d\u0259, s\u0259hvinimi deyim, q\u00fcsurunumu deyim, h\u0259zm ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r, h\u0259r iki cins. Bu da son n\u0259tic\u0259 olaraq ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. T\u0259qsirkar olaraq dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bo\u015fanmalara \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bkar ki\u015fil\u0259rdir. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, demir\u0259m ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259qsiri yoxdur, amma \u0259sas etibaril\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r ail\u0259y\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 soyuqqanl\u0131 olublar, ail\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi azal\u0131b, s\u0259mimi dey\u0259c\u0259m, ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 \u015forg\u00f6zl\u00fck \u00e7oxal\u0131b (g\u00fcl\u00fcr)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 S\u0259b\u0259b n\u0259dir \u015forg\u00f6zl\u00fcy\u0259?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Bu art\u0131q ki\u015fi psixologiyas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, bizim ki\u015fil\u0259r buna \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259 kimi, stress atmaq kimi bax\u0131rlar. Normalda bunlar bel\u0259 deyil, olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Normalda stress atmaq idmanla da ola bil\u0259r, \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259 d\u0259 eynil\u0259, n\u0259 bilim, musiqi il\u0259 d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r, h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. \u00dczr ist\u0259yir\u0259m, \u0259xlaqs\u0131z h\u0259yat ya\u015famaq o dem\u0259k deyil ki, stress at\u0131r, \u0259yl\u0259nir v\u0259 s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, sizc\u0259, indi insanlar bir-birin\u0259 sevib yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, yoxsa onlar\u0131 ehtiras yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u0259n dey\u0259rdim ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti sevir. Bunu ki\u015fil\u0259r haqq\u0131nda dey\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00e7ox az sayda sevm\u0259yi bacaran ki\u015fi var. Qad\u0131nlar is\u0259, beyinl\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n, \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131rlar. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu da sonda ac\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259yl\u0259 bitir, qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini aldanm\u0131\u015f say\u0131rlar. Lakin \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu bel\u0259 deyil. B\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259, hans\u0131 ki, bo\u015fan\u0131rlar, \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, reall\u0131q budur, qad\u0131n aldanm\u0131\u015f olur. O ki, qald\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rin sevgisin\u0259, m\u0259n ona \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n inanmam\u0131\u015fam, he\u00e7 vaxt da inanmayaca\u011fam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Niy\u0259?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 M\u0259n el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, bu s\u0131rf ki\u015fi psixologiyas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 sev\u0259 bilir. Amma bu ba\u015f verir onlar\u0131n 16-17-18 ya\u015f d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259, hans\u0131 ki, o d\u00f6vrd\u0259 o\u011flanlar saf hissl\u0259rl\u0259 sevirl\u0259r. Ancaq inki\u015faf d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259, ya\u015f ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 daha \u00e7ox \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259y\u0259 meylli olurlar, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r. Sevgi hissi onlarda \u00e7ox az olur. \u00c7ox az hallarda olur ki, ki\u015fi sevdiyi qad\u0131na ba\u011flan\u0131r, evl\u0259nmir v\u0259 yaxud s\u0131rf o qad\u0131nla ya\u015fay\u0131r, evl\u0259nirs\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu h\u0259min qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u00f6rm\u0259tini saxlay\u0131r. \u00c7ox az olur bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r. Bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, bel\u0259 hallar 3-5% t\u0259\u015fkil edir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Deyirsiniz ki, \u0259sas etibaril\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r ehtirasa g\u00f6r\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r qad\u0131nlara?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Ehtirasa g\u00f6r\u0259 dem\u0259zdim, s\u00f6hb\u0259t cavanlardan gedirs\u0259, t\u0259bii ki, evl\u0259nm\u0259k niy\u0259til\u0259 q\u0131zlara yax\u0131nla\u015fan o\u011flanlar \u00e7oxdur. Amma \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259 niy\u0259til\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fan da var. \u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131na da bu niy\u0259tl\u0259 baxan o\u011flanlar\u0131m\u0131z var. \u018fg\u0259r ki\u015fi, yaxud qad\u0131n ail\u0259lidirs\u0259, onlar\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131 ehtirasla \u0259laq\u0259lidir. Ail\u0259li deyil, subayd\u0131rlarsa, hardasa ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259ndir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, seksi sevgi il\u0259 s\u0259hv salanlara nec\u0259 bax\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 \u00c7ox pis. Sevgi m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s, \u00e7ox \u00fclvi hissdir. H\u0259r k\u0259s sevm\u0259yi bacarm\u0131r. Sev\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259miz hissl\u0259rl\u0259 sevm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Sevgi insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn t\u0259mizl\u0259yir, safla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r, yax\u015f\u0131 adam edir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Y\u0259ni seks olsa sevgi yaranar, yoxsa sevgi olsa seks yaranar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 O art\u0131q psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 hald\u0131r. El\u0259 olur ki, ki\u015fi \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259 xatirin\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 yaran\u0131r, amma daha sonra aralar\u0131nda g\u00fccl\u00fc ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131r v\u0259 sevgiy\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. Eynil\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlarda bel\u0259dir. Ola bil\u0259r ki, \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259 ki\u015fiy\u0259 ba\u015fqa niyy\u0259tl\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, amma hans\u0131sa xasiyy\u0259tini tan\u0131yandan sonram\u0131, yaxud hans\u0131sa \u00fcst\u00fcn c\u0259h\u0259tini g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259n sonra, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri sevgiy\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259 bilir. Amma o ki, seksi sevgid\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutanlar, ya da d\u0259yi\u015fik salanlar var, bu d\u00fczg\u00fcn hal deyil. \u018fvv\u0259la, insan seks ist\u0259yirs\u0259, evl\u0259nm\u0259lidir, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmal\u0131d\u0131r. Burda s\u00f6hb\u0259t t\u0259kc\u0259 ki\u015fid\u0259n getmir. H\u0259r iki cins bu ist\u0259yi varsa, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmal\u0131d\u0131r. Allah normal insan\u0131 bel\u0259 yarad\u0131b. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 bir qayda-qanun da qoyub ki, bir ki\u015fi m\u00fctl\u0259q qad\u0131nla evl\u0259nm\u0259lidir. Amma el\u0259si var ki, ail\u0259 qurandan sonra da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc el\u0259 hesab edir ki, guya Herakld\u0131r, ya seks simvoldur (g\u00fcl\u00fcr) n\u0259dir\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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H\u0259kim-Kosmetoloq \u00dclviyy\u0259 M\u0259mm\u0259dovan\u0131n m\u00fcsahib\u0259si. \u2013 Salam, \u00dclviyy\u0259 xan\u0131m, xo\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fck! \u2013 \u018fleyk\u00fcm\u0259 salam, xo\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fck, xo\u015f g\u0259lmisiniz! \u2013 Xo\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259k! Sizc\u0259 qad\u0131n kimdir? \u2013 Qad\u0131n, Allah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259xluqdur, insand\u0131r, birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259. \u2013 B\u0259s \u0259sl qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r? \u2013 \u018fsl qad\u0131n (g\u00fcl\u00fcr), q\u0259rib\u0259 suald\u0131r, \u0259sl qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r? \u2013 Y\u0259ni ideal qad\u0131n nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r? \u2013 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11024,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11023"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11023\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11025,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11023\/revisions\/11025"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}