\u00c7oxlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, deputatlar\u0131n, h\u0259tta d\u00f6vl\u0259t komissiyalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00f6vzunu e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 \u201caaa!\u201d, \u201coyy!\u201d nidalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259til\u0259, \u201cs\u0259n Allah m\u0259ni bel\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qatma\u201d dem\u0259sil\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 yana\u015fma. \u201cAy\u0131bd\u0131r\u201d, \u201cintim m\u00f6vuzlara toxunmay\u0131n\u201d dey\u0259-dey\u0259, g\u0259ldik \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131q namusun g\u00f6z\u0259llik salonlar\u0131nda pulla b\u0259rpa edildiyi z\u0259man\u0259y\u0259! Amma pulla b\u0259rpa etdirdiyiniz bakir\u0259liyin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc z\u0259man\u0259nin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 ata bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksiniz bu d\u0259f\u0259.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnki bir anl\u0131q hissl\u0259riniz\u0259 hakim k\u0259sil\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n b\u0259zil\u0259riniz, ba\u015fqa birinin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 alt-\u00fcst etm\u0259yi g\u00f6z\u0259 alacaq q\u0259d\u0259r NAMUSSUZSUNUZ! Bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131b, telli-duvaql\u0131 g\u0259lin olub, beliniz\u0259 q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 lent ba\u011flayanda he\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259dinizmi xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyiniz o lent boyda da olmayacaq?..
Bir ba\u015f\u0131papaql\u0131n\u0131z olmad\u0131m\u0131, siz\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t etsin? Yoxsa daha papaq da d\u0259bd\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb?\u2026Vallah el\u0259 d\u0259b deyib s\u0131r\u0131d\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r z\u0259man\u0259ni bu g\u00fcn\u0259 qoyan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u018flq\u0259r\u0259z qay\u0131d\u0131ram m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdikl\u0259rim\u0259. O m\u00f6vzuyla ba\u011fl\u0131 ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda var v\u0259 bunu danan ya az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 deyil, ya da uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir \u00f6lk\u0259 h\u00fcdudlar\u0131ndan k\u0259nardad\u0131r ki, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259n hal\u0131 deyil.
\u0130lk olaraq m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyim Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sind\u0259n intim m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 kimin a\u00e7\u0131qlama verilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini bildirdil\u0259r. \u0130srarlar\u0131m is\u0259 yersiz oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00f6vb\u0259ti m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyim Milli M\u0259clisin Ail\u0259, qad\u0131n, u\u015faq komit\u0259sinin s\u0259dri Aqiy\u0259 Nax\u00e7\u0131vanl\u0131 is\u0259 sual\u0131m\u0131 e\u015fitc\u0259k az qald\u0131 oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259n g\u0259lib m\u0259ni ass\u0131n. O Aqiy\u0259 Nax\u00e7\u0131vanl\u0131 ki, Zaur Bax\u015f\u0259liyev v\u0259 Xo\u015fq\u0259d\u0259m Bax\u015f\u0259liyevan\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259llifi oldu\u011fu verili\u015fl\u0259rin c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rind\u0259n a\u011fz\u0131dolusu dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Amma indi \u201cay q\u0131z, bu n\u0259 m\u00f6vzudur, m\u0259n \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 bu haqda dan\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Bel\u0259 \u015fey olar?\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k d\u0259st\u0259yi asd\u0131.
\u201cBu add\u0131m\u0131 atan qad\u0131nlar\u0131 he\u00e7 c\u00fcr anlaya bilmir\u0259m\u201d
\u201cT\u0259miz D\u00fcnya\u201d Qad\u0131nlara Yard\u0131m \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259di Mehriban Zeynalova is\u0259 Modern.az-a deyib ki, o, bel\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 rastla\u015f\u0131b.
\u201cM\u0259n\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bel\u0259 hallar ya\u015fayanlar olub. Amma he\u00e7 vaxt onlara d\u0259st\u0259k vermir\u0259m. M\u0259n hesab edir\u0259m ki, insanlar ail\u0259 quranda d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmal\u0131, ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li ilk g\u00fcnd\u0259n sa\u011flam qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r.
B\u0259zil\u0259rinin toydan \u0259vv\u0259l bakir\u0259liyin b\u0259rpas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn etdiyi m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259, bu, t\u0259l\u0259b t\u0259klif m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sidir. \u0130nsanlar b\u0259zi hallarda \u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u0259cbur edir ki, bu hadis\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f versin.
B\u0259zil\u0259ri bil\u0259r\u0259kd\u0259n, hissl\u0259rin\u0259 qulaq asaraq add\u0131m at\u0131r, daha sonra bu faci\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilir v\u0259 \u0259m\u0259liyyata \u00fcz tuturlar\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M.Zeynalova hesab edir ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bu \u0259m\u0259liyyata \u00fcz tutmalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 q\u0131naqd\u0131r: \u201cQad\u0131nlar bel\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ki, he\u00e7 kim onlar\u0131 anlamayacaq yaxud q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131 q\u0131naq alt\u0131nda olacaq.
M\u0259n \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, sonu olmayan bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259mir\u0259m. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011f\u0131r, \u00e7\u0259tin olsa da, reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 deyib qar\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131na d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldu\u011funu n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirm\u0259lis\u0259n. Onsuz da s\u0259hv add\u0131m\u0131 atm\u0131san, bunu bir d\u0259 hans\u0131sa m\u00fcdaxil\u0259, \u0259m\u0259liyyatla s\u0259n\u0259 inan\u0131b ail\u0259 quran adama etm\u0259k he\u00e7 d\u0259 do\u011fru deyil\u201d.
\u201cAldadan da ki\u015fidir, qad\u0131n\u0131n namusunu l\u0259k\u0259l\u0259yib sonra \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n d\u0259\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00fcquq m\u00fcdafi\u0259\u00e7isi deyir ki, \u0259slind\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 aldadan da, aldanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 ortada qoyub q\u0131nayan da ki\u015fidir:
\u201cBu hadis\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 o qad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n d\u0259 ki\u015fidir. Bu bax\u0131mdan \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n valideynl\u0259r onlara d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verm\u0259li, kimins\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 alt-\u00fcst etm\u0259y\u0259, aldatmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 verm\u0259m\u0259lidir. H\u0259r k\u0259sin dig\u0259rl\u0259ri qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi olmal\u0131d\u0131r.
Onun h\u0259yat\u0131, onun ya\u015fam\u0131, onun psixoloji durumu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk etm\u0259lidir. T\u0259bii ki, h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yir v\u0259 bu ail\u0259ni \u0259min olaraq qurmaq ist\u0259yir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, sui-istifad\u0259 hallar\u0131nda bu c\u00fcr probleml\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min hal olubsa bel\u0259, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, onu do\u011fru \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 anlatmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.
Bu \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar, h\u0259kiml\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 son qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r kims\u0259 s\u0259ni sevirs\u0259, s\u0259ni oldu\u011fun kimi, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi, ruhun kimi sev\u0259c\u0259k\u201d.
\u201cYalan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc he\u00e7 bir h\u0259ft\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259di\u2026\u201d
M.Zeynalova bakir\u0259liyini b\u0259rpa etdirdikd\u0259n sonra ail\u0259 qurub bo\u015fanan bir qad\u0131n\u0131n ona k\u00f6m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcarci\u0259t etdiyini qeyd edir: \u201cBakir\u0259lik \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar\u0131na \u00fcz tutub sonra problem ya\u015fayan 20, 22, 28, 32 ya\u015fl\u0131 xan\u0131mlar biz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edib, amma he\u00e7 bir halda m\u0259n onlara k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259yi boyun olmam\u0131\u015fam. \u00c7\u00fcnki q\u0259ti \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bu c\u00fcr \u0259m\u0259liyatlara qar\u015f\u0131yam.
Bir d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 bir xan\u0131m yax\u0131nla\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. \u00c7ox ziyal\u0131 bir xan\u0131m idi. Y\u0259ni bu kimi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259hsilsiz olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sas g\u0259tirirl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt. Amma bu xan\u0131m t\u0259hsilli idi. Dem\u0259li, bu xan\u0131m \u00f6z ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olmu\u015fdu. Amma onlar evl\u0259n\u0259si olmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Sonradan qad\u0131n ba\u015fqa bir b\u0259yl\u0259 ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rla\u015fanda ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259tm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc \u0259m\u0259liyyata m\u00fcraci\u0259t etmi\u015fdi. Toydan bir h\u0259ft\u0259 sonra telefonda r\u0259fiq\u0259sin\u0259 prosesi dan\u0131\u015fanda t\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n yolda\u015f\u0131 onu e\u015fitmi\u015fdi. Yalan \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259y\u0259 birc\u0259 h\u0259ft\u0259nin i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 son qoyulmu\u015fdu. Qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f he\u00e7 c\u00fcr aldad\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fa bilmirdi. Bax\u0131n bu \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar\u0131n bel\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 var. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 gizl\u0259tm\u0259k, aldatmaq, s\u00fcni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bakir\u0259liyi b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k yolverilm\u0259zdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bakir\u0259lik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si v\u0259 onun b\u0259rpas\u0131 daha \u00e7ox \u015e\u0259rq \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 yay\u0131l\u0131b. Harada ki, bakir\u0259lik insan, qad\u0131n faktorundan \u00fcstd\u0259 durur, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 orda da aktuald\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u00c7oxlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, deputatlar\u0131n, h\u0259tta d\u00f6vl\u0259t komissiyalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00f6vzunu e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 \u201caaa!\u201d, \u201coyy!\u201d nidalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259til\u0259, \u201cs\u0259n Allah m\u0259ni bel\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qatma\u201d dem\u0259sil\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 yana\u015fma. \u201cAy\u0131bd\u0131r\u201d, \u201cintim m\u00f6vuzlara toxunmay\u0131n\u201d dey\u0259-dey\u0259, g\u0259ldik \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131q namusun g\u00f6z\u0259llik salonlar\u0131nda pulla b\u0259rpa edildiyi z\u0259man\u0259y\u0259! Amma pulla b\u0259rpa etdirdiyiniz bakir\u0259liyin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc z\u0259man\u0259nin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 ata bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksiniz bu d\u0259f\u0259. \u00c7\u00fcnki bir anl\u0131q hissl\u0259riniz\u0259 hakim k\u0259sil\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n b\u0259zil\u0259riniz, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10968,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10967"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10967\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10969,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10967\/revisions\/10969"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}