{"id":10206,"date":"2024-03-30T23:07:42","date_gmt":"2024-03-30T23:07:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=10206"},"modified":"2024-03-30T23:07:43","modified_gmt":"2024-03-30T23:07:43","slug":"aparici-vusal%C9%99-ail%C9%99-qurur-m%C9%99ni-qinamayin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/?p=10206","title":{"rendered":"Apar\u0131c\u0131 V\u00fcsal\u0259 ail\u0259 qurur – “M\u0259ni q\u0131namay\u0131n”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

“Son zamanlar bu s\u00f6zd\u0259n utan\u0131ram des\u0259m, m\u0259ni q\u0131namay\u0131n: h\u0259r sevgilisind\u0259n, \u0259rind\u0259n ayr\u0131lan b\u0259z\u0259n he\u00e7 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin x\u0259b\u0259ri bel\u0259 olmadan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib yan\u0131na al\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 lap bet\u0259r. \u018fri oldu\u011fu halda gizli, y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ya\u015fay\u0131b, “m\u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fc qad\u0131nam” deyir. N\u0259 savad, n\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259t var. Bir pe\u015f\u0259nin sahibi deyil. N\u0259yinl\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc qad\u0131n olursan, b\u0259s?”.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri apar\u0131c\u0131 V\u00fcsal\u0259 \u018flizad\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 izl\u0259yicil\u0259rinin suallar\u0131n\u0131 cavabland\u0131rark\u0259n yaz\u0131b. O, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259si haqda yaz\u0131lanlara m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bildirib:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Bu, bir ayr\u0131 m\u00f6vzudur. T\u0259bii ki, bu, h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 aid deyil. \u00d6vlad\u0131 il\u0259 t\u0259k qalan qad\u0131n\u0131n birinci i\u015fi onu qorumaq olmal\u0131d\u0131r. O xahi\u015f etm\u0259mi\u015fdi ki, m\u0259ni d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir. S\u0259n bunu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n anda, m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini d\u0259 d\u0259rk edirs\u0259n. Ya s\u0259n\u0259tin, diplomun, i\u015fin, ya da \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin bir pe\u015f\u0259n, qazanc yerin m\u00fctl\u0259qdir. \u00dcmidl\u0259rl\u0259 ya\u015fam olmaz. \u0130kinci, he\u00e7 kimin \u0259siri, k\u00f6l\u0259si, \u0259lin\u0259 baxan, “vay bu ged\u0259rs\u0259, m\u0259n n\u0259 yeyib i\u00e7\u0259r\u0259m” qorxusu il\u0259 ya\u015fayacaq biri olmamal\u0131san. Qazanc\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda ya\u015fam t\u0259rzi se\u00e7m\u0259lis\u0259n, \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 yox. Ev, ma\u015f\u0131n, geyim, yem\u0259k, restoran, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259hsili – bunlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015f yox, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin b\u00fcdc\u0259d\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, yar\u0131yolda qalmayasan. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 \u00e7ox insanlar\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015fli h\u0259yata al\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131. Bu, u\u00e7urumdur. Tan\u0131nmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evl\u0259n\u0259n, bo\u015fanan, evd\u0259n qa\u00e7an, kiml\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259dik… \u00c7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck v\u0259 vacib m\u00f6vzudur. Bu d\u00fcnyada n\u0259 \u015fahzad\u0259 var, n\u0259 d\u0259 bir \u00f6p\u00fc\u015fl\u0259 \u015fahzad\u0259 olacaq qurba\u011fa”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00fcsal\u0259 ikinci d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259m\u0259si haqda suala is\u0259 bel\u0259 reaksiya verib:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Art\u0131q 10 ildir h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 “m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil, he\u00e7 vaxt” deyirdim. He vaxt he\u00e7 vaxt dem\u0259. Bu s\u00f6zd\u0259n \u00e7ox qorxuram. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qism\u0259t\u0259 buraxd\u0131m, y\u0259ni axar\u0131na. Su axar \u00e7uxurunu tapar. \u018fslind\u0259 m\u0259nim bel\u0259 bir plan\u0131m olmay\u0131b. T\u0259klif d\u0259 olub, el\u00e7i d\u0259. \u0130lk d\u0259f\u0259 daha asand\u0131r, n\u0259yinki sonra. \u0130nsan yan\u0131lmaqdan, s\u0259hv se\u00e7im etm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxur. H\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131 olan ana \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn”. \/ Ax\u015fam.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Son zamanlar bu s\u00f6zd\u0259n utan\u0131ram des\u0259m, m\u0259ni q\u0131namay\u0131n: h\u0259r sevgilisind\u0259n, \u0259rind\u0259n ayr\u0131lan b\u0259z\u0259n he\u00e7 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin x\u0259b\u0259ri bel\u0259 olmadan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib yan\u0131na al\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 lap bet\u0259r. \u018fri oldu\u011fu halda gizli, y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ya\u015fay\u0131b, “m\u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fc qad\u0131nam” deyir. N\u0259 savad, n\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259t var. Bir pe\u015f\u0259nin sahibi deyil. N\u0259yinl\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc qad\u0131n olursan, b\u0259s?”. Bu …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10206"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10206\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/millitv.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}